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your bf thinks that you're not getting pleasure and you feel bad? it's your bf that should feel bad. he needs to focus more on you. what you need is open communiction. tell him what makes you feel good, and work on it. but sometimes, you just need to take off the pressure of getting ***, to feel it.

but to answer your question if you were different bec u cant ***, i dont think so, bec i think you can bec you've already experienced it, however light, as you put it, you just havent *** big time yet. Good luck! to you and bf.

i recommend a solo session. if you can learn to make yourself *** then it should be easier for you to learn how to climax when you're with your BF... your hand is all you need :) but if you need to then purchase a small vibrator and stimulate your clit..

good luck!

maybe hes just not good enough

Nah, you're lucky it doesn't shoot out like mine.