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if u can, ide definately hire a male dancer, but one that wont get naked LOL....they are SOOO funny to watch and yall will LOVE laughing at him and talking aobut it afterwards. women arent like men and dont get turned on like that so its just mere fun then!!!!! its more goofy than anything and embarrases the bride to be really good!!!

•Bachelorette parties are typically thought of as drunken nights of dancing in clubs and male strippers. However not all brides or bridesmaids are 21 years old of legal drinking age to be able to partake in these festivities and well, not all brides want this kind of a party in the first place. There are tons of fun things you can do to celebrate a bride's last night as a single woman having a good time with her closest friends.

Day Spa

•Spend a day at the day spa relaxing and pampering yourselves. Get the bride a manicure, pedicure, massage and/or facial as a treat. Enjoy a nice light lunch and lay out in the sun with your lemonade or iced tea. It's a calm way to spend the day with your best girlfriends and just enjoy each other's company.

Movie Night Slumber Party

•Get some classic chick flicks, junk food and some things to give one another manicures and pedicures then let the girls only night begin. Make it mandatory that everyone wear cute pajamas and bring their favorite girly magazine. Then snuggle up and watch chick flicks while you munch on popcorn and giggle with your gal pals.

Pole Dancing Class

•Take a pole dancing class. You only have to be 18 usually and sometimes only 16 so all of the bridal party should be able to participate. It's a way to be "naughty" and learn some sexy moves regardless of age. Who needs alcohol? You'll be laughing so much it'll be like you're drunk off of life.

Road Trip

•Plan a weekend getaway to a destination you haven't been to in a while. Or take a trip somewhere none of you have ever been and do some exploring. Be sure to grab the video camera and document your adventure into the unknown. It'll be a trip the bride will never forget.

Extreme Sports

•Just because you're girls doesn't mean you can't play rough like the boys. Go snowboarding, sky diving or rock climbing. If the bride has a particular sport she loves then get the girls together and have everyone try it out. You might just be surprised by how much fun it can be, not to mention all the great photos you'll capture to make into a scrapbook for your bridal buddy.

Comedy Club or Show

•Go to a comedy club or see a show. You'll be sure to laugh and there are lots of clubs that are 18+ where those of legal age can also enjoy a drink if they so choose. Or take in a show at the theater that the bride would like such as a Broadway production, musical or dance revue.

do a themed party, pick a era and throw it in that style...but get jello and pour them into shot glasses..use non alcholoc margaritas in the mix...make sure there not alchohlic... tell the bride that there not but dont tell the 19 and 17 year old...see if they act drunk....

Have someone come and do pedicures then drink champagne and play games like a slumber party way back when

Well that kinda sucks. Whats a bachelorette party without alcohol? lol If there are any places near you that serve alcohol but is also open to whomever (like a steak house or mexican place) why not try there. You and her can drink and the young uns can drive you home lol. =D

I don't see how "Bars=Fun".....There are plenty of fun/wholesome things to do. Go to a resturant for dinner & then a movie.....come back home & drink sparkling cider while having girly chit chat on the sofa...go out for breakfast in the morning & get your nails done together....

hiring a male stripper always works.