OK so for the past 2 weeks my boyfriend and I have been planning on going to this concert. Well at the last minute he backed out and said he didn't want to go because we would be home too late. He ended up going to his goddaughters birthday party today all day and most of that group of people at the party and I don't get along so I didn't go.
So he tells me he needs a ride home from the party since he's been drinking. He also offers that since I was upset about not going to the concert that he would take me out to dinner and a movie. He says just meet him at 6pm at his moms house. So I leave and am about 30 seconds away from his moms house so I call him and ask where he is. He says he's 2 minutes away. I accidentally missed the turn to his moms house so I make a quick U-turn and park at the top of her street. I sit there for about 5 minutes and then start calling him. I called him about 6 times in a 25 minute period, and he doesn't answer or show up so I leave, very pissed off, and drive home.
Halfway home (I live like 20 mins from his moms house) he starts flooding me with calls and texts saying he was at his moms all along, but his phone was in his truck and he was having his mom move her car. Honestly I'm not sure how it would take 25 minutes for someone to move a car, and also why would he not realize I said I was 30 seconds away and now it's almost 30 minutes later and he doesn't think about calling me to see where I am?? His sister even came out and looked at my car and I'm sure she told him I was there, but yet he didn't come out and let me know that he's there.
Is it wrong of me to be mad at him? I told him he can't sleep at my house tonight. (We both live with my mom) Or do I have a right to be mad? I am so hurt and crying right now because this kind of thing seems to happen a lot, and although we have been together for 3 years I feel like he puts me through this **** all the time.
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He is lying about something for sure. I have no idea what but this just doesn't make any sense. He knows how close you are to his mom's house yet for close to 25 minutes you don't hear from him? Something isn't right. I would tell him that you aren't an idiot and when he decides to be honest that you are willing to listen but there is no excuse to have someone waiting close to 30 minutes.
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Is there anything more difficult than seeing the man you still love with another woman? It's emotional torture and for many women it's something they have to deal with on a daily basis. Wanting him back after the break up is one thing but when he's already moved on and is dating someone new, it becomes a much more challenging situation. There is a right way and a wrong way to handle a situation like this if your goal is to get back together with him. Understanding the steps you need to take and what you have to avoid at all costs, will allow you to have the best chance of becoming the woman he loves again.
You need to leave him hes a worthless piece of ****. My ex was just like that and I wasted 4 years of my life. You need to get out while you still can, before its too late, I promise you will not regret it.
Honestly I think you need to speak to him about this. Its up to you to do what you want and if you want to stay in a relationship with him thats up to you. Good luck
HOnestly...dump him! he is not worth your time! if he wanted you he would be the one there for you! not the other way around!