i thin just maybe my girlfriend might be pregnant. if she is and wants to get abortion. does Virginia state require parents permission or can she go there and do it alone? we had sex last night and her period should start end of this month or the first week of next month.. should i wait and see if she gets her period or take action now? what can i do?
Update:so i had sex with my gf the other day and after i came in her... i pulled out my penis and noticed that the condom didnt come out with me... The condom was actually inside and the base of the condom was abit outside of her vagina. and i was shocked....
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Start thinking with your head not your man parts. Use protection! why is it that people don't think about the problems untill afterwards?
1. Check to see if her period is regular and ask her how long her cycle is.(days in between the first day or one period and first day of another period)
2. Go to http://www.ovulation-calendar.net/ and check to see when she was ovulating and see if she was on a fertile day. If not you can freak out a bit less.
4. Go buy the Plan B pill or morning after pill and take it as soon as possible. (It works best within 3 days so work fast)
3. Go to a drugstore and get a pregnancy test a couple of days before her next period. Don't do it today because since it's been only one day after having sex, it won't be accurate.
4. If she is pregnant, consider your possibilities like abortion, having the baby and giving it up for adoption or keeping the baby.
5. If she is not pregnant, be more careful next time. Maybe she could go on the pill, you could be more careful with the condoms or if not then you could practice abstinence.
Is it a good idea? Well, here's what I would suggest the law should be. Generally, parental consent should be required for all medical procedures for a minor. In the abortion case, some kind of streamlined "parental-bypass" court approval should be in place. Planned Parenthood would certainly publicize it and help minors do it. Maybe the question is whether minors can have an abortion without any adult supervision or consent. I'd say no, unless the rule is relaxed for all medical procedures. PS Planned Parenthood has a duty to report instances of suspected statutory rape to legal authorities. Many have called, come in, etc. claiming to be underage and have been warned off by PP representatives - told not to mention the man's age. And the liberals tar Republicans with Foley! So far as I know, that jerk didn't touch one of the interns, and was forced to resign within hours, if not minutes, of the story breaking.
YES she can. I don't know the specific details ( over a certain age but under 18 maybe??) but if it turns out that she IS pregnant she should go down to the Juvenile and Domestic Relations Court for the city in which she lives and visit the Clerk's office. There she can file a petition for a judge to grant her an abortion without her parents knowledge.
They will hold what's called a judicial by-pass hearing and it is not in open Court. She would be appointed an Attorney and a Guardian ad litem since she is under age. It is my understanding that the majority of these petitions are granted.
As for what you can do, be patient and wait it out with her until her period should arrive, if she is a week late she needs to take a pregnancy test. Just stick by her side, I'm sure she's freaking out too.
Good luck.
She probably did not get pregnant. What you should do is have her start taking birth control pills and use condoms. She probably needs her parents permission if she is under 18. But she can talk to a planned parenthood locally and ask them for advice. They give out birth control and condoms too i think. Visit their website. I think its
www.plannedparenthood.com
You should wait until her next period and if she gets it then she isnt pregnant. And if it is 5 days late go buy a pregnancy test kit at a pharmacy.
Stop having sex if you arent ready for the consequences like pregnancy and STDs
First off, the decision of abortion should be your gf's and hers only. If she is pregnant, maybe ya'll should consider other options other than abortion, such as adoption. Abortion is not only unfair to the child that you made being foolish, but can also do damage to the womans body as well. Have you ever looked at what an aborted fetus looks like? You really should.
Being young and having a child can be scary, but you'd be amazed how much such a little person can change your life in amazing ways. and how much you can love someone so small and defensless
You really shouldn't be doing the deed if you can't handle the responsability that may come with it
About the plan B and morning after pill.... They only work if she has not already gotten pregnant from the encounter. If she is already pregnant they will NOT terminated the baby
You can do nothing. She can see her doctor if she is concerned. Protected sex will eliminate all of these worries in the future. Abortion is not birth control. She should have a choice, but it's upsetting to think a child may be murdered because two people who probably shouldn't be having sex, didn't feel like using protection and think it is more convenient for them to get rid of the child then own up to what they created. Her parents should be aware of the issue.
Please don't do anything until you know for sure and then please don't do anything you will both regret. Abortion is murder, could you live with that for the rest of your lives?Do the responsible thing and tell her and your parents, I love my grandchildren and would do anything for them. If your parents love you they will suport you. They may be furious in the begging but they will get over it. If you or your girl friend are too young and parents won't help, there are a lot of childless couples who would love your child and give him or her a good home. If she isn't pregnant, stop having sex or use condoms, that is the most responsible thing you both can do. If your going to do grown up things, then you need to learn to be responsible. The Dollar Store $1.00 pg tests do work. My daughter used them with her last 2 children.
Tell her to go to the local health department and get the plan b pill!
She has 72 hours after the incident to take it and it will prevent her from getting pregnant!
Than you won't have to worry about abortion and health clinics are 100% confidential!
Just tell her to go asap before her time runs out!
Good luck
get an 18 year old to go and get the plan b from a pharmacy for her.
No she can't get an abortion under age in virginia
But I would do the plan B first thing in the morning before time runs out.
1. Stop freaking out. There's nothing that can be done at this point. Wait to see if she misses her period before you jump to and rash conclusions.
2. If she IS pregnant, tell your parents, and hers. They will be mad at first, but you both should have their support to get an abortion. Going to take care of that procedure alone will leave life-long emotional scars. Trust me, they will be mad at first, but they will get over it. Also they will be WAYYYYY more mad if they find out she had an abortion without their knowledge.