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No, I did not remain abstinent until marriage.

I was 21 the first time I had sex. (Got married at age 29.)

I'm 18, and still a virgin. I've been in 2 long term relationships, and didn't go all the way with either. I'm at a large university now and sex is everywhere. I'd like to stay a virgin till marriage, but if I don't then that's ok too. I'm not doing it for religious purposes, but rather respect towards myself. That's just me.

No, I was 16 when I lost my virginity but my husband was a virgin when we met. In some ways, we both kinda wish we both were virgins but then we realize that my experience has paid off for us. I think everyone should do as they feel if right for them. I think I was too young.

No and I am glad I didn't.. abstinence is a silly outdated hold over from long ago.

It can cause all kinds of problems in the future because one or both of you will not know what to do and one or both of you will wonder what someone else is like.

Please read over the information I have posted below.

I lost my virginity at 17. At 21, I chose to become celibate. I married at 22 (a few months shy of my 23rd b-day). My husband was a virgin when we married. Our first time together was our wedding night.

edit- danigrrl8 - Anal sex is real sex! Your husband lied and you didn't wait for marriage.

No, 14, i thought i was "in love". i dont regret it. I actually think waiting till your married might not be the best idea personally though. Sex is an important part of a healthy marriage, i would hate till i was married to find out that the sex was not good.

Nope, I was 17. I took my husband's virginity at 18, and never looked back!

I was 19 when I chose to have sex for the first time. I was 27 when I got married...

I like Danigrrl8's answer a lot. I think that one is the winner right there! Your husband must be very lucky to have someone like you

It's a little too late for that ... I recommend you do though. Too many STD's these days.