Were you spanked by your mom, dad, teacher, etc as a punishment when your were a child/younger (when it wasn't enjoyable)?
BQ: Do you enjoy being spanked as an adult (or older person)?
Why I ask:
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Yes. I was spanked. I was not harmed by such corrective measures.
There is a difference between spanking and abuse. One corrects. The other causes injury. If you don't know the difference, don't try to spank. You risk hurting the child and yourself.
For some reason, my mother's spankings were not a big deal. But she could give a mean tongue lashing. My father in contrast, could not use words effectively. His spankings were something to avoid. I was never abused. There really is a difference. My parents never acted in anger. There were occasions where they were angry when acting, but they were disciplined enough to know when to act and when not to act.
Edit: as an adult, spanking in the literal sense is not part of my life. There is "play"....so many swats for a birthday or some such. But that is not spanking. There is a difference. If you don't know the difference, then don't try to play or to spank.
Yes, I was spanked hard by my father with a leather belt until 16. The last one was so bad that my mom had to tell him that the neighbors could hear me scream and cry. From 11 to 16, I got spanked about every 6 months and my *** would be black and blue for a week. Yes, I now have a spanking fetish.
NO! If I so much as mumbled 'hello' to a drunken parent or even stayed quiet, I would get a black eye, a broken nose, or - on one occasion - a knife to the back, or I might be left ill with double pleurisy for weeks untended and unnoticed. Don't laugh - it's true.
You wanna discuss 'oppression' now? I stand before you a 6'+ achiever of things I KNOW you will never be able to do, and a kind and gentle human being, too - and I came from far worse than you could ever imagine in your delusions of 'oppression because I couldn't do metal work at school and get a job at a bench in a factory (humph, humph), and might have had to stay home where the air was clean instead!'
All this oppression bullshit makes me sick.
Yes, I was spanked,& beaten many ways growing up! Do I like to be spanked as an adult? I do the spanking if requested! Depends on how kinky the woman is!
yes - both parents and teacher. Never enjoyable.
As an adult I've never really been spanked other than the occasional love pat. No offense to those who get into it, but it's not my thing.
Not spankings. When I got out of line my grandma took out the extension cord.
Yes. My mother would beat my azz black and blue or at least to where I couldn't sit down for days when I got into a significant amount of trouble.
BQ: Not particularly, no. :P
Everyone tore my butt up! I was stubborn and unruly. Parents, teachers...
BQ: NO, I do not enjoy it, it hurts.