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Well let me tell you what happens. Don't be scared I had mine this summer and I am 14. First thing your mom will have to fill out paperworks and they will call your name if you want your mom to come in with you she can. They first will check your weight and height. They then will give you a cup and show you to the bathroom so that you can give them a urine sample they will not watch you. After that the nurse will bring you back to a exam room where she will check your temp pulse and blood pressure. After that the nurse will ask you to undressed completely. This might freaked you out because it freaked me out to but you will be given a gown to put on. The nurse will leave so that you can get into the gown. If there isn't a curtain to change behind and if you are uncomfortable getting undressed from your mom you can ask her to step outside. When you are all changed into

your gown the doctor and nurse will knock and ask to come in. The doctor will ask you about your period and your sex life. My doctor ask my my to wait outside when she was talking to me about

this. And when the time for the exam she let her back in. The first thing the doctor did was look at my boobs and feel around for any lumps. He then asked me to scoot down to the end of the table. This part might be scarier but its not scary at all but little bit uncomfortable. When you scoot down

the doctor will take out the stirups you will have to put your feet up in them. You legs will be spread

apart. The nurse will put a drape over your legs for modesty. The doctor will examine the instead

inside by putting a speculum in he will probably do a pap smear in witch he will take a q-

tip and swab all around your inside.

If you don't want your mom in the exam room you can ask her to stay in the waiting room but you will have a nurse in the exam room. You can also request a mirror so that you can see what's going on. If you have any questions you can email me

Anything you say to your doctor is private and will not tell your mom

Your Gynecologist only knows what you tell her.

There is no way to tell you've masturbated and even if your hymen was broken, it wouldn't prove that you are sexually active.

Some woman are born without them, you can break it from being active, and some don't even break the first time their penetrated!

No worries, just relax.

The exams are quick and painless, but extremely necessary!

Good luck!

Why do you have to go to the gynecologist? You don't need to until you are sexually active.

Its stable to bypass a minimum of as quickly as a year whether you at the instant are not sexually lively. in case you commence having intercourse, you may desire to bypass greater many times. Its additionally stable to bypass so as that if any issues arise you may basically call your doctor and ask.