I'll admit it. I feel so depressed since MJ died. And its not JUST because he died, I feel like its triggered so many other things in my life. It's like I have done a whole heap of soul searching in the last few weeks and feel like everything is a misery.
I'm going to a doctor in 2 days to talk about my depression, but I just would like to know if anyone else has noticed that their emotions towards other people, life, love, friends, family, religion etc have changed since his passing.
Also, is there many people here who can understand why many loyal MJ fans would liken him to a "God". I am NOT saying that MJ IS GOD, but I can totally see why people would put him in that class. What's your thoughts on this??
PS: MJ haters, please don't bother writing nasty stuff and dont bother telling me I need to get help... I KNOW I do... thats why I am asking these questions.
Thanks
Update:EDIT: I didn't say MJ was a God or thought of himself as God or equal to Jesus or whatever but what I am saying is that soooo many people around the world worship him in the same fashion as Jesus, Jehovah, Allah, Buddah or whoever you choose as your "God". What I am saying is that I can totally understand why people would do that for MJ and put him on a pedestal. I don't think its obsessive or rediculous. I just think he did so much for the world and tried to make a beautiful place and heal the world and spread the message of love.
Update 3:"getting over this" is much easier said than done. Just because I never met him or knew him or was related to him doesn't mean he touched my heart and inspired me. You don't need to "know someone" to feel love and compassion towards them.
As for his court trial. His supporters ALWAYS knew he was innocent. We were ALWAYS there.
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i feel the same way :\
ever since mj died my life is just going downhill.
its like im not even suppose to live life anymore since everything is going wrong.
ive been treating everybody like a piece of crap.
and i dont know what to do with myself.
*sigh*
he made my life somewhat "normal".
OMg. I have a similar problem. here is my question that I posted last week.
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The love of my life recently passed and I don't know what to do with myself?
Its been a little over a month since the love of my life passed. I cant focus half the time because I am thinking about him. I can't stand hearing about him or hearing people talk about him. All I want to do is listen to his music. I listen to it all day everyday. I Miss him so much.
I kind of felt like we were supposed to be together. I felt like it was destiny for us to meet. How could I be in Love with someone whom I have never met? I love him so much and I feel very sad almost everyday. I even thought about not wanting to live anymore because my future is gone. I feel as though I am not going to ever fall in love with anybody because who I was meant to be with truly is gone.
I miss him so much. If I could have been with him, I would have been broke, we could have lived in a shack, no windows, no doors, just our love.
I am going to school to be a doctor and I feel as though we could have been a powerful couple.
I think I have a problem.
Not only was he loved by the world for his music but he was a GREAT person. I felt like I knew him. I felt s though I was in LOVE with him not just how a fan loves an artist but how a woman loves her husband.
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I totally know where you are coming from, soon as i heard he had died i burst straight into tears, was depressed for ages and to a certain extent i still am now. I think i'll always be sad about Michael Jackson's death, i wanted him to live forever and he will. I have come to realize and except that, yes he has died, but his music hasn't and never will.
Michael we love you and your a total legend xxxxxxx
Please, would everyone get over this!!!! I think the only people that had the right to be sad of his death are the people that new him. His friends and family. All the people that showed up for his funeral. It's been ages since he's died.
All i'm gonna say is this...at his funeral there were loads of people but where were these people at his child molestation case to defend him?
Yup. And as far as MJ being God...Well, tbh I think its just a bit too far. Your depression is normal, I had it in the first two or three weeks but then now it just feels its been replaced by happiness. Oh my god, I can speak factual! Whatver.
PS: If MJ is God (which he probably ain't no offence) why'd he believe in God? That'd just be weird if you worshipped yourself. But then again, I wouldn't blame them.
That is an unusual problem.... And to answer your question, no. I didnt like Micheal Jackson that much. I even thought he died a long long long time ago. But when he died this year, my mom and aunt were crushed. They absolutely LOVED MJ. But no depression :(
No. Its been over 1 month. The best thing is to literally move on. Being depressed won't bring back the King of Pop. Its ok to be sad but if your that sad I suggest you see a therapist.
I fell depressed since he died. He was just a huge part of my life because i've been a fan of his since i was a little kid. And i know i never met him...but i still feel sad over it :(
no, not in me or anyone i know. it's curious that you can be effected by someone like that. and why anyone would liken him to a god is beyond me. he was just an entertainer. a bizarre one at that, with mental and emotional problems of his own.
nope, not at all.