I have a sister that takes advantage of me all the time. She is a girl that will be nice and get things out of me, then be absolutely nasty to me afterwards. Like my mom had a friend in town, and the friend slept in my room for 3 nights and her room for 3 nights. When she slept in my room, I slept with my mom because I had no where else to go, and then when the friend slept in her room, I let my sister sleep with me instead of my mom. She slept in my room and was nice to me, used some of my stuff, and borrowed some of clothes, then when the friend left, she went back to her room and was nasty to me starting right after this lady left. She's also nice to me when friends are over, but as soon as they leave, she nasty again. Never shares anything with me either. If i make food, i share with the family (willingly) and when she makes something, she claims she is going to rat it all and wont ever share :( Anyone out there have a sibling like that? I feel like just quitting being nice to her. What can I do to show her everything I do for her? I need advice from someone who is in, or has had this happen to them!
Thanks and no rude comments (:
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What you have to do, and this is because you obviously love your sister, is to understand who she is and accept her behavior, however, you do not have to agree with her behavior. It's like a dog who pees on the furniture, but you love so much you can't get rid of him. Do not expect so much out of other people and you will never be disappointed. If you expect your sister to be like you , you will always be disappointed. Accept her for the loser she is and just shrug your shoulders.