how to understand my dreams?
Everynight since I can remember I always dream about I guess an alter ego in a way. Im a girl and I always dream that Im this really hot guy in school. Hes really hot and nice and popular. And he has sex with girls and everything in my dream. I don't understand why always dream of being this guy, Im not gay trust me Im not. Im thinking its because thats what I want or something. I don't know but can you help me interpret my dream? Thank You!
Update:i dont think that there is anyone i would want to be like at my school, and no its not from a movie and/or a dream... Since maybe even the 6th grade I've always had dreams like that, It's like everyday like a tv show haha
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One way to try and come to understand the meaning of your dream is to admit that your dream (unconscious) to trying to alert you about something regarding yourself. As such, you begin by asking, "what am I unaware of about who I am?" That's a means for you (consciousness) to begin probing the significance of your dream.
Once willing to travel down that road, you need to try and clear your conscious mind of any preconceptions of what your dream is. That is, don't approach the dream directly or only once. Try to walk through your dream and with each journey, think about another possibility -not in a dream sense but in real-time.
Consider the characters, the circumstances, the setting. For you, in this particular dream the characters are your alter ego (a male) and other girls (that your alter ego has sex with). The setting is school. And the circumstances are, quite simply, you have changed genders.
As you make your way through these dream attributes, each pass should provide for more clues to what your dream represents.
For example, your dream may have absolutely nothing to do with the possibility of you being gay, but it may be related to some deep-seated feeling you have about the social paradox of popular males having the liberty of enjoying themselves (sexually) and, to a large degree, actually being applauded for multiple sexual partners while a females are chastised -indeed labeled as w***** if they engage in similar behavior.
In real-time that may be frustrating to you ... this "double-standard" may, in fact, even anger you but you don't want to feel that way or have others see you that way ... so, your suppress that urge and it then manifests itself in your dreams.
At a minimum, your dream indicates that you see males have having a freedom that -quite possibility- you cannot see in yourself and other females. Another possible issue is that you wish you could -without recrimination or quilt- engage in sexual activity without commitment or consequences as it seems that many males do.
is there someone at your school that you really wish you were or were like them that is just like the guy in your dream? myabe your right about wanting to be like him.
or maybe you've watched a movie or a show about someone like that? or have you read a book?