i am in so much stress?
my family stresses me out my aunt/tia is pregnect with her second baby she is 18 but she is starting collage soon my dads girlfriend is pregnect it is so weird now my dad has three different girls my mom my sisters mom and now his girlfriend and my mom ust broke up with my brothers dad we are like all on alone everytime i go with my dad it is so wierd my cusin is always on the computer my dad lives with my big cusin and its hell here i dont know what to do its like everyone is getting pregnect these days and i am working so hard at a salon to get money but its to hard i fell like i am going to run away
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I am not sure what the question is. But maybe you should hand condoms out to your family.
The best you can do is to take care of yourself. You dont say how old are you or more info so it is hard for smbdy to give an opinion.
But if you dont like this situation in your family, try to become different when you have your own family when you grow up. Which means that you have to go to school (if you are not going) take a degree and be patient. Hang out with people that have normal families so that you can see how their life is.
It might seem hard and you might feel strange but dont let people in your life to infuence you in such a negative way. Compensate with positive.
Keep working hard. Save your money. Get an education and move out on your own. You are already taking care of yourself, now it's time to take GOOD care of yourself. If you run away, you will find yourself with no food or shelter. That is not a good place to be because it makes you vulnerable to anyone who would provide these things for you. Better the devil you know than the one you don't! You are in survival mode here so for God's sake, DON"T GET PREGNANT YOURSELF!! Get Depo provera or some other long term solution for birth control. Don't trap yourself, get yourself free, the smart way.
Running away wont solve anything, my dad has 3 kids by 3 different moms my sisters mom has 3 kids by 3 different dads, my mom has kids by 2 different dads, I have a sister that ran away from us and its left a hole in our hearts, just learn from there mistakes and make your life better. I grew up in a multi family house hold and a single mom house hold, Im 31 now, no kids, because Im not out of school financially stable yet, I wouldn't want a child to live in poverty like I did most my childhood
Good grief! No one in generations of your family uses a condom? 2 kids by 18, 2 daddies too I bet.
Don't have sex, don't to it!
Find a nice, clean and honest roommate and move out on your own and don't the crazy relationships of your family rule your actions.
Good luck to you.
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