I don't understand men...Did I emasculate him?
This guy used to follow me around, hung out with me, got the door, and treated me sweetly. I could tell that he liked me, but he never asked me out or told me so directly. So after four months of this, I asked him if he liked me. His attentions died down a bit, but we ended being friends. Yet, I haven't heard from him in about 4 months and I miss him. Would that totally throw a guy off track? Is there a chance that he'll get over this?
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You didn't emasculate him you just put him on the spot. He may come around but if he doesn't there's not much you can do.
I have no idea. Any time a girl ever took any ounce of initiative with me, I jumped at the opportunity to do whatever she wanted, be it having a long-term relationship or sex. It's not often that a girl/woman makes a first move on a guy. So when one does, I'm all for it in a flash like I just won the lottery.
So with the guy you're talking about, I have no clue.
Maybe he did like you, but felt weird about being confronted like that. I can only think that it threw him off-guard. I don't see how asking that question emasculated him, though.
Could you say hello to him via text or maybe ask to meet him someplace? I would hope he'd get over that, but I certainly don't want to over-analyze his intentions because I'm just as confused as you!
To be honest, I don't have a clue what might be going on with the guy. If he got scared that easily, wow. If you haven't heard from him in four months, I guess he's telling you something.
I think he was just being polite I do that stuff for the girls I know probably blind sighted him
Yeah, he may come back, but you shouldn't take him back because we don't need men, just be a Radical Feminist like me. It's good that you emasculated him because that's what we do.
I'm a modern Feminist and we don't hate men.
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