I don't understand my recent behavior...?
So i basically have always had a complete distrust of men. I've always always always just assumed that any nice act that a man does, is a game because all a guy's motives could ever be for, is for sex. So then a real nice guy actually comes along, who really is genuine and caring and I know this for real, but HE'S the one I take it out on?!?! He's the one i say to you "all you're niceness and compassion is an act to get in my pants." even though i know with him it isn't true.
so i don't understand? why him? why not the actual *** holes?
I feel so so terrible... :( ...
More Questions From This User See All
Answers & Comments
Verified answer
why not apologize to this dear person & you may have taken it out on him because you trusted him- now put an invisible lock on your mouth so you will think before you do anything else like this ♦
Well, trust issues aren't that uncommon, and trust in men seems to be the first thing to go with women. As far as your specific episode here, it's probably because you're feeling more pain and conflict over the fact that he's acting kindly toward you but it's more difficult for you to accept than with actual ***holes.
The same thing happened with me and my husband--he was a really sweet guy, but I didn't have faith in him and blew up early in our relationship. Fortunately, he was really understanding, and now we're married. :)