Maybe this is a daft question but what is a promise ring? Is it the same as an engagement ring? If not then why would someone buy one instead of an engagement ring? Is there a different meaning?
a promise ring is merely a tangible symbol of a promise made. It can be a friendship promise, a purity promise, etc....there are limitless possibilities. So, technically, an engagement ring is a promise ring, but a promise ring is not necessarily an engagement ring...does that make sense?
My husband was a more old-fashioned guy, and when we had been dating about half a year, he presented me with a promise ring, and the promise attached to it was that he was promising to see me as his future wife, and to respect me as such, etc....it was a ring that showed his commitment to me. We weren't at a place to be engaged yet, but it was sort of an invitation to begin working as a couple to emotionally reach a place where we were ready to become engaged.
People might think it is silly, but it was a really special moment for us.
A promise ring is something given out by the jr/sr high crowd as the modern equivalent of a teenager from the 50s giving a girl his class ring, while knowing that they won't be together forever but living in the moment of youth. No one over 18 exchanges them. Some people believe that they mean that they are a promise to someday get engaged. Other people that they are purity/abstinence rings. Either way, they are something that only the teen crowd does. They are not given out by anyone who knows what an engagement ring really symbolizes.
Just like an engagement ring is a promise of marriage, a promise ring is a promise of engagement.. sort of. I have a few friends who got promise rings while in college because they weren't ready to make the leap into engagement while still in school. Essentially it's saying that they will stay faithful and committed while they mature enough to get engaged/married. It's more symbolic gesture than anything, really.
Have you ever heard of people giving their significant others their class ring or letter jacket or something, back a few decades ago? It's kind of the same thing - a sign that they're exclusive, committed, and in a serious relationship.
It's a promise that you will be engaged and then married.. a promise to spend the rest of your lives together... Some think it's silly... I had one... It was nice knowing that he wanted to make that promise, but had no money for a real engagement ring... but, now I do!! :) he kept his promise, hehe.
In my day (please don't ask when but I remember the first broadcast of Capt. Kangaroo lol and the first televised performance of Elvis Presley on American t.v.) a guy gave his gal either his jr high school or high school ring and they were pronounced as 'going steady'..in other words an exclusive dating couple...and they were usually teenagers.
At some point in time that was replaced by a 'promise' or 'pre-engagement' ring.
A cute idea for teens and kids in their early college years but a bit juvenile for those who are in their mid-twenties and older.
Also, a 'promise' ring can be a ring given to parents to a minor child who promises to abstain from sex until they are adults.
It's a ring that symbolizes a promise. What that promise is - well, that's entirely up to the person making it. Engagement ring is sort of a "promise" ring, in that it symbolizes a promise to marry. But a promise could be simply to be faithful, or to stay together, or any number of things - without marriage necessarily being a part of it.
A promise ring is a ring given to someone when you are promising a proposal in the future. It is a ring promising engagement.
Some times you know you want to marry someone, but certain conditions are not right. Like still in college, not financially stable, etc.
When you out of school, have the career and making the money you want, etc. then you can propose to the one you love.
Some people don't like the idea of a promise ring, but I am all for it. My fiance gave me promise ring. he told me that when he had a better job, he would ask me to marry him. He got the better job 6 months after he gave me the promise ring and then proposed 4 months later.
most people do not do promise rings... but they are supposed to be a ring to show that you are in a committed relationship, but not engaged to be married just yet.
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a promise ring is merely a tangible symbol of a promise made. It can be a friendship promise, a purity promise, etc....there are limitless possibilities. So, technically, an engagement ring is a promise ring, but a promise ring is not necessarily an engagement ring...does that make sense?
My husband was a more old-fashioned guy, and when we had been dating about half a year, he presented me with a promise ring, and the promise attached to it was that he was promising to see me as his future wife, and to respect me as such, etc....it was a ring that showed his commitment to me. We weren't at a place to be engaged yet, but it was sort of an invitation to begin working as a couple to emotionally reach a place where we were ready to become engaged.
People might think it is silly, but it was a really special moment for us.
A promise ring is something given out by the jr/sr high crowd as the modern equivalent of a teenager from the 50s giving a girl his class ring, while knowing that they won't be together forever but living in the moment of youth. No one over 18 exchanges them. Some people believe that they mean that they are a promise to someday get engaged. Other people that they are purity/abstinence rings. Either way, they are something that only the teen crowd does. They are not given out by anyone who knows what an engagement ring really symbolizes.
Just like an engagement ring is a promise of marriage, a promise ring is a promise of engagement.. sort of. I have a few friends who got promise rings while in college because they weren't ready to make the leap into engagement while still in school. Essentially it's saying that they will stay faithful and committed while they mature enough to get engaged/married. It's more symbolic gesture than anything, really.
Have you ever heard of people giving their significant others their class ring or letter jacket or something, back a few decades ago? It's kind of the same thing - a sign that they're exclusive, committed, and in a serious relationship.
It's a ring promising that you will get engaged at a certain time. They are dumb. Why can't someone just give an engagement ring when that time comes?
It's a promise that you will be engaged and then married.. a promise to spend the rest of your lives together... Some think it's silly... I had one... It was nice knowing that he wanted to make that promise, but had no money for a real engagement ring... but, now I do!! :) he kept his promise, hehe.
In my day (please don't ask when but I remember the first broadcast of Capt. Kangaroo lol and the first televised performance of Elvis Presley on American t.v.) a guy gave his gal either his jr high school or high school ring and they were pronounced as 'going steady'..in other words an exclusive dating couple...and they were usually teenagers.
At some point in time that was replaced by a 'promise' or 'pre-engagement' ring.
A cute idea for teens and kids in their early college years but a bit juvenile for those who are in their mid-twenties and older.
Also, a 'promise' ring can be a ring given to parents to a minor child who promises to abstain from sex until they are adults.
It's a ring that symbolizes a promise. What that promise is - well, that's entirely up to the person making it. Engagement ring is sort of a "promise" ring, in that it symbolizes a promise to marry. But a promise could be simply to be faithful, or to stay together, or any number of things - without marriage necessarily being a part of it.
A promise ring is a ring given to someone when you are promising a proposal in the future. It is a ring promising engagement.
Some times you know you want to marry someone, but certain conditions are not right. Like still in college, not financially stable, etc.
When you out of school, have the career and making the money you want, etc. then you can propose to the one you love.
Some people don't like the idea of a promise ring, but I am all for it. My fiance gave me promise ring. he told me that when he had a better job, he would ask me to marry him. He got the better job 6 months after he gave me the promise ring and then proposed 4 months later.
A promise ring is something a person gives to another that says they "promise" to get engaged someday. So basically it's an engagement to get engaged.
I think they are stupid.
most people do not do promise rings... but they are supposed to be a ring to show that you are in a committed relationship, but not engaged to be married just yet.