So i always get nervous when im around a girl that looks pretty and i dont know how to talk to her becuase i dont know what to say. so i just turn around and pretend i didnt see her. but i keep looking at her to see if shes looking at me and some girls do but when they do i get nervous and sweaty and turn around fast like i wasent looking at her. i just dont know how to talk to girls people just say go up to her and say hi where you from and stuff but i dont have courage how do i get the courage i aslo dont want my sisters i have 5 sisters being like ohh and liaghing at me and stuff saying that im trying to get a girlfriend. if you sisters you might have that feeling so how do i get more courage and not feel shy when im around girls or other people for that matter.
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Act like it's no big deal! Girls are way to shy to make the first move. Well most of them anyway. Go up to her and be like I like your shirt of something. that will start something. the only thing you have to do is keep it going. dont show your nervous because if you talk to her like an old friend you haven't seen in forever you will start just having fun with it!
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Sounds like you have the same problem I have around guys I think are pretty, or guys I think are looking at me. I get so mad at myself because I get all nervous and look away, then I'm like damn! if he likes me he thinks I'm ignoring him.
I think you should walk up and talk to girls you don't think are very pretty or don't feel nervous around. Know yourself that you don't rly like them, but act as you think you should or would want to act if it were a girl you liked. That way you get some practice and maybe learn something.
This is what I do and it helps my confidence a little, but I still haven't asked out the guy I think is hot. However, I am a bit more comfortable around him and have tried talking about just normal stuff with him like I would with a normal "practice" guy. He is more friendly when I am like that. I would say girls like to feel comfortable around you, and if you act nervous they may not trust you.
OOOOOOOHHHHHHH you got it real bad I think you should smile at her then she will smile back . dont worry its just a smile it means nothing just that you are interested. And thats the mesage that you want to send , and try not to act so desperate . I promise later she will come up to you and talk to you . here are the three steps first, say hi , then compliment her on how she looks, then make her laugh. YOUR WELCOME!!!!!!!!!!!!good luck
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Alcohol. The only way to get confidence fast.
just keep pushing yourself into challenges and face your fears :)
little by little....:)