I am a frshman in HS and i have never been popular but i've never really been a loser either. i have nvr relli had a good boyfriend and i have trouble getting them...will someone help me?? I know this girl who i go to school with and i kno her pretty well and she is not attractive at all and shes not funny and she is a total bizzach, yet she has no problem getting all the nice, sweet and ;)attractive guys and then there is me who...im nice, all i try to do is make people happy, i can have a temper when ppl piss me off but it takes a lot to do that. I am tall, about average weight, i have been told i have pretty eyes and beautiful lips and a cute nose, i have short dyed black hair that will soon be red and blue eyes i just don't quite get it PLZ help
thanx.
~*Mae*~
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I know what you mean. I'll be a sophmore. I've noticed that and it really ticks me off. Anyway, I can't tell you why people act like this, but I understand your frustration.
First and formost be yourself. Your life doesn't revolve around finding a boyfriend. HS should be one of the BEST experiences of your life. You will make friends and you will see the Click groups. You from the sounds of it should be able to mix with everyone, but don't just hangout with one particular group cause nows the time to explore your friendships. During this time you'll probably find out that the one guy your searching for is right in front of you. By the way that bizzach you refer to is probably handin it out like candy!! LOL dont mind what she does just take care of yourself you'll be fine. :) ENJOY HS
take heart is knowing that there is no such thing as a good boyfriend in HS. All the guys aren't mature enough to handle any sort of meaningful relationship.
You just need to find a boy who really likes you. Sorry I can't help you out a little bit more, I just woke up (yes, 1:49 PM)