Please dont judge me .
I'm dating two girls/ladies and i love them both, i want to be a faithfull BF but i dont know how to get outter this ?
Can i really be in love with both ? I know its wrong to date two people - so i aint looking for answers that wont help my situation .
Girls/ladies im sorry - i know im a bastard . I just want to change .
Update:Thanx for the Help.
To the people who Judged me .I think your'll didnt read my question - I need Help cause i wana stop .
I apologize again - i didnt mean for this to happen .
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Faith,care,trust etc these are all the roots of love and without them love cannot exists.I agree that you love both of them but i don't know equally or more for one and less for another.But i can guess you love them equally otherwise you would not have ask this question.
Well in this scenario may be i can help you out by saying :-
You know when i was searching for JOB then my father used to give me interview tips and there was one of his trick that i always remember and that is " WHENEVER IN DOUBT GO BRITISH". Means if the interviewer will ask you a question that you think there an be many right answers and you have to choose a one that is best then in that case do not think too much := " just go british means just apply some rules and pick the answer that is most suited to that rule".
So your case is similar to that. And the rule that applies in your case is "DO NOT MARRY THE ONE WHOM YOU LOVE MOST... MARRY THE ONE WHO LOVES YOU MOST". Means that if you love both of them then choose the one who loves you more that the other.Means if girl A loves you more than Girl B then it is always advicible to marry girl A.
I hope i helped you out in this.
All the very best to you
To be honest, I think that the one that you don't get to see often or don't like as much should be the one you break up with. I doubt that it is possible that you really are in love with both. When I say break it off with the one you don't see as often, I don't mean break up with the uglier one. I know a lot of guys who would do that. Do what you think is right. If you think it's right to be with both of them, then that's your opinion. But if you think one girl is more right than the other then you have your answer. The one you pick to be your one and only girlfriend should stay that way. Don't cheat on her, don't be mean to her, just cherish her. Again, do what you think is right. I hope this helps.
Not smart man. The best thing to do now is to break it off w/ both of em cuz theyre gonna find out bout this sooner or later and if youre still w/ one of both of em, its gonna hurt em. Do whats best for them. Im pretty sure they dont deserve a man that is unfaithful, so let them go and find someone that will always be faithful and learn from your mistake.
God, there are so many things i want to say to you now but i guess im a sense i can understand.
you need to figure out which girl will be the best for you and make you happier in the long run.
I dont know how old you are but you need to figure out the girl that is perfect in your eyes, i get the being in love with two girls thing but in your heart you knows theres one you love more.
So even though its going to be hard to need to break it off with one of them because thats just so not fair to either one of those girls, and sorry but if you really loved them you wouldnt have let it get to this point.
The best thing to do is to totally rid yourself of this. Dump both girls. You really can't love and be in a committed relationship when you're with two chicks. Be honest with them, and yeah, they'll be pissed and tell their friends about it, but they'll be even more mad if you kept it a secret. Start fresh and date one girl at a time.
And yes, its possible to be in love with both, but its just not fair to those girls if you love another person, even if you love them too.
ur gonna get it from all of these girls on here.
what you need to do is to ask yourself what do you like about both...
and there will be one with qualities that the other doesn't have.
however, some can be developed, some can't.
so keep the one with the best potential to become all you've ever wanted. and you have to break it off with one.
or else prepare to be bashed by girls on yahoo answers who simultaneously contract pms upon reading this question.l
well, either one or both is going to be hurt, you need to look deep inside yourself for the answer, follow your heart, then when you decide you need to be totally honest, yet very gentle while breaking her/their hearts, because you are playing them against each other, and they don't even know!
it just may be that you are the one who may end up on the cutting block!♥
You need to make a choice, hard as it might be, and stick with it. If they find out you are dating both of them, they will both dump you.
(And they should)
It is okay to date more than one person as long as it is JUST dating.You have to let them know you are going out with other females to get to know them better. Be careful though. Don't mislead any females by making them think you two are in a serious relationship when it is not the case. Open communication is the best way to go buddy. let her decide if she still wants to date you. breaking hearts is not good and it makes you a real jerk! it is ungentle-man like.
You cant love 2 girls at one time, definitely you love one than the other, better chose one of them before it is too late. Dont keep up with it dear.........................chose the one u love the most