Okay, so I have a question about a guy that I'm really confused about and I need your opinion of what I can do!
So theres this guy and I met him a couple months ago and I've seen him pretty much every weekend at parties but only see him at parties. Every week seems to progress and I found out last week that he told his guy friend that he is fond of me which made me really happy. When I saw him that night I was pretty drunk and I think I kind of ruined it but he wanted to walk me home and all i remember was him kissing my forehead and giving him a hug and I texted him the next day to thank him for walking me home and he said "no problem bud" which sketched me out when he said the word "BUD". But anyways I saw him last night and he said only a few words to me about my mom being a MILF (trying to bug me because he knows it makes me mad) Even though he's joking and then I had to leave and now he's having people over tonight! First off my question is do you think guys get less fond of a girl who got really drunk one night, what BUD means, and what kind of things should I say to start up a convo tonight to make it flirty!
P.S He's kind of impatient and will leave if the convo is boring
Any insight would be great from either gender :)
Much Appreciated!
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I think that you don't have to worry about it. Just make sure that you keep eyes open and try not take any risky chances with him. I am not sure if he sees as a friend because I don't have a lot details from you. But if he feels that way about your mother then most likely he is probably a playa who just wants to get some. He probably wants you for your body, trust me some guys are really good at disguising themselves. I am a boy so I would know, pretending to be friendly, sweet, and nice is definitely a good strategy especially if the boy's got charm.
maybe you called him buddy when you were drunk. i would text him and say something like, "hi friend, wanna hang out this weekend?"
maybe he just sees you as a friend,if this is the case then you need to move on