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"Sexy is..."

Dependent upon the chemistry I have with him, and it varies from man to man.

Currently I'm finding sexy to be defined by an interesting combination of a quick and passionate mind, a very witty sense of humor, a fantastic a s s, a compassionate heart, great dimples and million other things that make me smile.

Okay, to me sexy is 100% attitude. Sexy is not thinking you are sexy, acting arrogant and flaunting what you have, it's not how thin or built you are, how much make up you wear, your style of clothing, or really anything that can be physically altered. It is a confidence and personality trait that defines you. It can be found in the way you talk and the way you walk. Generally I find sexy is not how a person looks but the way "are".

It's not something I can define,because I find a lot of different qualities sexy. I think intelligent men are sexy,if a man has a certain look in his eyes he's sexy to me,just a lot of different things.

My boyfriend is sexy. Whatever he does. He's even sexy when he's sick or sleeping.

But I most feel like having sex with him when there's something typical manly going on... Like he is standing tall, or came home all sweaty after a work-out, or when he's doing some typical man-thing (repairs, carrying heavy stuff, etc.). And he's verrry sexy in the shower.

Sexy to me is a tall lanky man with lean muscle. It is the way he holds himself - something very masculine that I can't define. It may just be broad shoulders held back. A cheeky grin. I particularly love the look of my husband when he is in work stained jeans, no shirt and a streak of mud or oil on his face. Yum. Hmm, have to go now....... ;-)

A man who makes it clear that he is all about me and no other woman, smiles, and spends time with me is sexy. I find men who are taller than me and with strong arms to be sexy.

Some of the most un-sexy things a man can do include: being drunk when he introduces himself to me, smoking, chewing, hitting on more than one woman in one evening, talking more about himself than asking about and getting to know me, poor hygene, low morals, a scowl on his face, clothes that are TOO trendy, or saying perverted things about men or women around me before they know me well.

A guy who's kind, down to Earth and looks nice. Just a quick example, there may be more that would make me find a guy sexy.

A lot of things that turn me off of someone has/is attitude, cocky, rude and egotistical.

I'm attracted to cuteness,vulnerability,and a little bit of eccentricity

I'm attracted to his reactions not actions,he's affected by the world around him but he doesn't wish to affect others

I'm attracted to certain positions,expressions,and changes in his voice that display his physical or emotional vulnerability

I'm attracted to his smell

I'm attracted to the faint blush on his cheeks when he's embarrassed

I'm attracted to the way his hair moves

I'm attracted to his innocence,he couldn't be manipulative,analytical,or fake if he tried

I'm attracted to his individual body parts,waist,butt,ankles,skin,the back of his neck

A nice looking guy smiling at me is very sexy.