Okay, I know that we're obviously over but I need help anyways. Okay we'll my boyfriend and I were kinda having problems because my best friend liked him and he didn't like her and there were a lot of rumors about me lying or cheating and him cheating. So my friend got mad at me and I got mad at him for ruining our friendship. After that we kind of stopped talking. Then he started asking out other girls and telling my best friend he now liked her back. She likes him still. So I was like, excuse me? We're still together. And he said we were never together even though he asked me out months ago and I said yes! So I know we're obviously over now but we never broke up or anything. So I'm wondering what I should do about this because I still like him but I'm not sure about him anymore.
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Middle school is so fun. You never said you were hurting through all this, I hope you are ok and your best friend is probably going to be your friend again, at least until school is out. This guy is doing what he is supposed to - screw up now while the girls are just having fun too. When you become adults, you will have these valuable lessons about dating.
1.) don't ever date your friends ex without their approval
2.) if your friend likes your boyfriend, she's not your friend.
3.) if your girlfriend values her friendship with someone who had betrayed her more than your relationship, she's not the one.
Just get over him. It's middle school usually relationships are for status. He doesn't really seem too interested in relationships either for real. I mean you said yes when he asked you out and he went on and asked other girls out, isn't that a red light here? And for the rumors, screw that, you don't need to listen to them, they think are better by spreading rumors, especially if they aren't true. Who gives them the right to spread rumors. Good Luck.