I have been pregnant 8 times, and have only had one baby. I miscarried twins 3 months ago, and am have trouble NOT getting pregnant. I have been on every kind of birth control, and use condoms, and still get pregnant. What can I do to stop this...I hate it, and it is killing me emotionally...
Update:P.S. I use condoms right, and I use my birth control correctly, but for everyone to know, my husband and I are BOTH allergic to Latex, and have bad reactions, and sheep skin condoms, are SUPER expensive...and everyone in my family has more than 5 kids...that tells you how "fertile" we are, but i guess i didn't get the "go to full term" gene...
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That is so terrible :( I am truly sorry this is happening to you, I can imagine how emotionally draining this must be. I've been through 1 miscarriage, and I was a wreck, let alone 8. My mother went through 12 miscarriages. She didn't have a problem becoming pregnant, but she could never carry. I was the only one that she carried to term, and she was bed ridden for the entire 9 months of her pregnancy with me. Are you having very early miscarriages? I would definitely ask your Dr about what you can do. Have you discussed Depo? Depo is not always recommended if you are planning more children in the near future, as it may take as long as 18 months for fertility to return after coming off of it. However, this is not the case for some women. The shot can really do a number on your body and reproductive system, but I have read, and heard from close friends that it does a good job at preventing pregnancy. Speak to your Dr about your options, or try to get to the bottom of why you're miscarrying so often. I wish you nothing but the best, and I hope this is resolved for you very soon. Take care.
Let me begin by saying how sorry I am that you and your Husband have endured so many losses.
That said, your story is very similar to mine, I have had several miscarriages and only one successful full term pregnancy. I went thru a myriad of tests and no solid reason was ever found for the MC's until my current GYN checked for Lupus and Anti- phosphilipid syndrome, I tested positive for both and the next time I got pregnant I was treated accordingly and was blessed with a healthy baby.
From what I understand these tests are not on the "standard" list so it may be worth asking your Dr. to look into it :)
As far as preventing future pregnancy, my advice is to speak with your Dr. about options that will work best for you and your partner then go from there, it sounds like you guys have had trouble managing things on your own and a little outside intervention may be needed.
Good luck to you :)
Hi, first off i am so sorry for your losses, i kind of know what you are goin through. I have recently suffered my 3rd m/c this year. I went off birth control in February, had my peiod March and then in April found out i was pregnant, however i m/c 1wk late, it was a blighted ovumn, i actually conceived again straight away after that and 4wks after the m/c i was testing positive again, everything was goin well at early scans until the 12wk scan, missed m/c, it only measured 8wks and no longer a h/b, d&c required, i went back on the pill, left it a couple of weeks to even have sex, stopped the pill for the usual 7days to wait for period, no sign of it, two weeks later still nothin, had negative HPT's THEN after 2wks 'positive', however 1wk after this bleeding again, chemical pregnancy. I am awaiting blood test results to see why this has happened and i am taking extra precautions this time in order NOT to fall pregnant again so soon as i want to give myself and my body a break.
hi huni this is thoroughly well-known and that i'm very sorry. you may desire to sense like this for weeks yet :( You wont comprehend why it happened to you - you theory each thing became going nicely, that is merely lifes cruel strategies - i individually don't get life. Why take transport of considered one of those useful present to have it snatched right this moment back off you. I remember after my miscarriage - i could no longer come to words without longer being pregnant. regardless of each thing I had gotten used to it for particularly much 5months. It merely no longer honest hun. you have had extremely some undesirable success - yet certainly that does no longer mean you will no longer have a healthful toddler back quickly. you may desire to grieve on your little toddler. are you able to get a field, and put in the test photographs and any innovations? I wrote a diary whilst i became pregnant - as with my first born I forgot all his being pregnant, so I did it this time, all my notes are in there, I additionally wrote Ruby letters and that they are in there too. I have been given her ashes back right this moment too so i visit do some thing fantastic too. i comprehend you will no longer get ashes back yet possibly you're able to do some thing like an attractive little memory field and write down the way you sense? I did that because of the fact no-you will choose what you assert, no-you will deliver you to wellbeing center because of the fact they're apprehensive you may OD your self or some thing like that. that is merely a fantastic thank you to get it out of your device. heavily, be at liberty to digital mail me hun, you may tell me something - if no longer, desire you do have somebody you may communicate over with. talking it by using is definately the key to shifting on and feeling human back - i comprehend i did no longer sense human after my miscarriage. back i'm very sorry huni - take it ordinary - get a appropriate style of relax, and a few chocolate & wine helped me. a good fantastic action picture or tub to think of issues by using and a field of soppy tissues. desire you feeling extra proper quickly hun even nevertheless it does take time. xxxx
We could tell you to use this or use that.... But do you know that it is God that gives life? Please , take this advice seriously and pray feverently about this. It is not normal to have managed to miscarry 8 times. Am not saying it's your fault either, but they say when the going gets tough, the tough gets going. I would advice you grab the bulls by the horns and pray the spirit of miscarriage out of your life forever! No one deserves to go through it even once!
If you don't want to to get pregnant again you could have your tubes tied or your partner can have a vasectomy. If you don't want a permanent solution; then you can have a IUD implanted and they are very effective and as they are inserted by a doc not likely to be done incorrectly.
I am sooo sorry. You might need to use progesterone right when you get preg & use it until your OB tells you to stop. that's what happened to a girl i used to work with and with my own sister.
or you might have an "incompetent cervix" and need a clercage (not sure if it's spelled right) and need a stitch to keep your cervix closed.
i'm sending baby dust your way and prayers that the next time you get pregnant, you'll go to term.
HUGS!
huh?
if you are using condoms and still managing to get pregnant, then you obviously are not using any of your birth control (including condoms) correctly.
you need to follow instructions on how to properly use your contraceptions.
***Thats so sad, Im sorry for you***
Make an appt. with your OBGYN and with a Pyschologist that is experianced in that area, your OB can proubably suggest one.
I'm sorry for you, that is a horrible thing to have happen once, let alone eight times. :(