My bestfriends grandma is down to 3 breaths a minute and I don't know what to say to my friend. My grandma died about a year and a half ago and she didn't know what to say to me either. Noone ever knows what to say...but I want to know what to say for once. Any ideas? I don't want to end up saying cliche things like "I'm sorry", or "she's in a better place" or anything like that. I know when my grandma died it started to get under my skin.. I'm always around her (seriously 24/7) so I don't want to say the wrong thing and upset her or make her cry..I want to make her laugh or smile..be happy.