ok so i have lived with my boyfriend for about 2 months and the past few days he seems distant. i will admit that every other day i will find something to be mad about and i have a feeling that has taken a toll on him and i fear i cant get him to be interested in me the same way again. I asked him yesterday if he had regrets or had anything on his mind he said no. then i ask are you sure he again says yes trust me we are fine. i can tell his feelings have changed i have to say love you he never says it anymore but when i do say he does say it back but i am not sure if its just cause i said it. He told me about a week ago that if anything changed he would let me know because he has that much respect for me. but what if he doesn't care for me anymore and just too scared to say it . i did move from another state to live here with him could that be why he doesn't want to say his feelings changed ?
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Stop getting mad over stuff and be happy and if hes being distant talk to him about it not strangers on a website
This one is a tough one. I feel like it has only been 2 days which may seem like alot to you but isnt that long in life. so hopefully everything will workout. Maybe hes just having time adjusting to being with you all the time doesnt mean he doesnt love you but just may be going through his own stuff. Coming from a guy i can tell you we go through stuff just like girls not necessarily every month, but we want alone time too. Maybe his job has been causing extra stress to him. I'm having some problems in my relationship as well but in relationships somedays you have good days and you have bad days. I would say give it time and talk to him and tell him how you feel and see what he has to say about it and trust that he's telling the truth. hope this helps
He would probably feel like crap, you moved from a state and that's not a 5 minute trip.. You left your apartment or house back, and probably your job so he I think he feels very guilty and he just doesn't know what to say...
Another way of looking at it he could be having a hard time at work or with his friends. But you said every other day you find something to be mad about so he is distancing him self from you to avoid any confrontation's that he finds unnecessary to have... By every other day, do you mean like once a month or once every week or twice a week? and what do you get angry about? is it something huge or just something small?
Bottom line I think is that you moved a long way to be with him, he's having a hard time with you and doesn't know how to break it to you.. But that's just my opinion... Good Luck.
things usually change in a relationship when you move in with someone. you tend to see what theyre really like 24/7. hes a guy thats the way they are.