my husband just does not understand .?
im 11 weeks pregnant and i still have really bad morning sickness 24/7, i understand my husband comes home tired and hungry from work,and expects a home cooked dinner and a clean house ,but right now i just cant do it everyday im just so tired and nauseated, and sick to my stomach to cook the foods he likes what can i do i feel like going to live with my aunt till i get better so he wont pressure me to do things i dont want.
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Sit down and explain to him that every pregnancy is not the same and maybe when you are feeling good that you can do some simple things around the house, and as for cooking maybe go to the store and get some pre-made foods that you put in the microwave, or even in the stove until you are able to cook again with out feeling so bad. I do hope that you get to feeling better and that you have a healthy baby. Merry Christmas. P.S. don't leave you both need this time together
Hubby is in for a big shock! Once bub is born Hubbys going to find LOTS of things undone & there'll be an often crying baby too!
Sit down & tell him (calmly & with no blame) that youre trying but this is the best you can do at the moment. Im sure he sees you of the weekend & knows what youre going through.
When you can cook, try to make extras for the freezer or reinvented leftovers, you know spaghetti bol meat turns into lasange on day 2, roast meat becomes a cottage pie.That way youre cutting downon the prep & cook time too.
Just do what you can a little at a time. Ginger can help some people withthe nausea.
Sorry to be the bearer of such wonderful news but I was vomiting 24/7 until my 3rd was born including the night of delivery :(
Good Luck
Maybe you should get an abortion since you can't go back in time and not get pregnant to an idiot like this.
If you are having a problem with your boyfriend/husband it is simple to fix, you speak up and tell them.
If he is so stupid and non understanding then it will never and things are only going to get more intense, so maybe you should just break up with him now as he is no good, and it will eventually lead there.
edit: I don't see why everyone is telling you how to cook for him, it's not your job to cook for him, you are pregnant right now. Half of the time it is like being ill. You are not just being lazy and having fun. Tell him to cook his own food, he is not a child.
ummm i don't think that is the best idea...you need to work this out with your husband...btw the morning sickness usually doesn't last much past your 3rd month...so its only about 2-6 weeks away...believe me baby it gets better.
Ask him to read What to expect when your expecting and maybe he will realize all girls get this way and you just can't handle it. Just tell how you feel. And it should pass in a week or two.
Tell him to try to carrying a baby for 9 months. Sounds like he is very insensitive.Go to your aunt and get a break before you put too much stress on yourself and the baby.
you should join i-am-pregnant.com
the women there are great and can help you out and someone to talk to. But honestly your husband just needs to suck it up and deal with it. Tell him time for PB & J and Ramen Noodles! :)