Well if you guys hate each other just talk to each other it will work sometimes I feel like I want to go crazy on my sister and then we do not talk for a day then we talk and make up. You guys might say you hate each other but you really do not. Try it. And do it calmly, like mature adults. Yelling will not do anything good. You could also try going out for the day and having fun. You do something she likes and she does something you like.
I have 2 sisters, one I dont get along with and the other I love to bits - my issue is that the older sister I dont get along with is more like me than I will ever admit, and this is some of the reason why we clash...I learnt to love my sister over time, it took alot of patience and forgiveness to get to this point.. I am dealing with a life threatening situation at the moment with my Partner of 8 years, and I learnt just how fiercely my sister loved me whenever I got into a tight spot, she was always the first to jump to my defence, and so it is for me should something happen to her...it took life experiences to show me the folly of my ways, and to appreciate my sister for who she is, and to do that, you have to stop dwelling on the negative, stop the focus on hate, how can you see any love when you focus on that emotion? Try to forgive your sister for the things you think are unacceptable, I urge you to find a middle ground with her, because life has a way of throwing you a curved ball, and at times like that, you will find out who are your friends and how important your family is in the scheme of things...only you can find the tools it takes to have a relationship with her, it may take many knock backs - but you will never know unless you try...enjoy life while you have it, and learn to love not hate...good luck whatever you decide to do
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Well if you guys hate each other just talk to each other it will work sometimes I feel like I want to go crazy on my sister and then we do not talk for a day then we talk and make up. You guys might say you hate each other but you really do not. Try it. And do it calmly, like mature adults. Yelling will not do anything good. You could also try going out for the day and having fun. You do something she likes and she does something you like.
I have 2 sisters, one I dont get along with and the other I love to bits - my issue is that the older sister I dont get along with is more like me than I will ever admit, and this is some of the reason why we clash...I learnt to love my sister over time, it took alot of patience and forgiveness to get to this point.. I am dealing with a life threatening situation at the moment with my Partner of 8 years, and I learnt just how fiercely my sister loved me whenever I got into a tight spot, she was always the first to jump to my defence, and so it is for me should something happen to her...it took life experiences to show me the folly of my ways, and to appreciate my sister for who she is, and to do that, you have to stop dwelling on the negative, stop the focus on hate, how can you see any love when you focus on that emotion? Try to forgive your sister for the things you think are unacceptable, I urge you to find a middle ground with her, because life has a way of throwing you a curved ball, and at times like that, you will find out who are your friends and how important your family is in the scheme of things...only you can find the tools it takes to have a relationship with her, it may take many knock backs - but you will never know unless you try...enjoy life while you have it, and learn to love not hate...good luck whatever you decide to do
maybe you should tak it out respect each others differences and act like adults not little kids
well,try to do stuff she likes then ask her to do stuff you like