I have a friend(girl) who is dating a paranoid schizophrenic(Guy). He has hit her before, has suicidal tendencies, uses/abuses hard and prescription drugs, and is overall a violent person. Now she claims she loves him (She is 16 he is 19) which I think she is just in love with the thought of being in love, but I promised to stay out of it until she asks me to help her. My question is, how should I deal with him if needed? First thing is the police of course I know that but they haven't been able to do anything. I need to know what to expect. I don't have an issue fighting him (I have combat experience, he doesn't) but I don't know how he might act. I won't fight to kill him, but I believe he might. Basically, what should I do if I do have to confront him? Like how to talk to him, and what to expect and do if he turns violent.
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Hey! You are a great friend and asking this question shows that you truly care about your friend! You're looking out for her and don't want to see her get hurt. You want what is best for her. That guy is letting evil get to him and that is bad. He need help and he needs God. He needs to have faith and be positive and then the evil spirits will go away. The drugs let evil in and being suicidal , because it is bad stuff, and bad stuff lets bad things in. He needs to stop. She needs to help him and not do what he is doing. You got to tell her what schizophrenic is and hopefully she helps him. She would help him to fight that stuff. If you want to talk add me. My facebook is facebook dot com slash omgitiskayla and my name on there is kaykay kitty marie. Also, I ask like everyone this, could you please check out my youtube? it is uniquedaydreamer1996 and I have a video called haters going to hate. I want people to watch it and share it :) Stay true to you(:
Always watch your back, if he feels any threat from you, he will get you. You need to sit her down and talk to her, if you lose a friend and something bad happens to her, you can't feel like it's your fault, you can only do so much. But if you do lose a friend, one day she will realize how dumb she is and then you be there for her. Here is a true story about a paranoid schizophrenic that I know, His name is Matt, he is about 34, well he was still living at his parents, and they had a foreign exchange student staying with them, but one day at dinner, he had a scene, he started fighting with his dad, his dad didn't detain him because it's his son and he didn't want to hurt him and they just got used to it, but the son ended up with knife and killed his dad, then chased his mother and the foreign girl and killed them too. So they can snap and be unpredictable at any time.
Get your nose out of your friend's relationship. You should listen to how you sound right now. Let me rephrase for you from your friend's perspective.
"I have a boyfriend who I'm in love with, but my other friend thinks he's a bad influence, and he's thinking about fighting him. Why the heck should he do that?! Is he insane?"
Focus on your own life, Scott.