well not to long ago i found out i was 5 weeks prego and now my life is crazy. i been with my boyfriend for 1 year 1/2 and i consider taking birth control and he told me that he didn't want me to take the birth control and saying all this scary stuff about birth control. i feel i was doing just fine and i need the birth control. i was in college. i am a dancer and now i cant dance because of this situation and the bad thing about it i took more dance classes this summer to prepare for this upcoming season. i feel my life is over......i think my boyfriend blames me for this because one day he came in drunk and at the time i really didn't pay attention to him like that and the next thing i no im prego but i feel this could of been avoided if i was on birth control. do you think this is right???i know i was wrong for messing around that night but that's what im use too we love our time together.....but i feel so control and unloved because of it?????
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Some women can't have children. You can either have the baby and give it to a family that really want a child or you can have an abortion or carry it through and look after it. If you want to use birth control and your boyfriend doesn't want you to then it is not his choice, it is yours and if he doesn't like it then I suggest you find a new boyfriend. It is YOUR body and you should do what you think is right.