my boyfriend has a lot of friends....who happen to be girls. in the past he has video chatted with them while messaging me, which I used to get upset about, but he explained to me how theyre just friends and i got over it. well now him and this one girl post funny pictures/videos on each other's facebooks all the time and today he just posted the commercial for the new 3d version of beauty and the beast coming out soon saying "quick robin to the bat mobile" aka...come see this with me.....my question is...wouldn't you ask your girlfriend to go see a disney love movie with you? by the way, sorry for the typical high school cyber drama, but i'm kind of upset he invited her and not me
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I would feel the exact same way...if it were me i would invite one of my guy friends to a movie and not invite him then i would see how he reacts. But the mature thing to do would be to ask him about it and work it out. Explain why it bothers you and he might have a good explanation for it. They could just be really good friends or he might need a break. Don't get too possessive, guys hate that about girls. Not to be mean or anything, but i know i can't stand being with my boyfriend ALL THE TIME. There are times when i need a break and i just wanna hang out with my friends whether they're guys or girls. Just give him some space, but if you really suspect of something going on between them, just talk to him. You two have to be open with each other to make things work :)
You need to accept your boyfriend is going to have some girl friends. Maybe Disney movies are their thing and you don't really realize it. Maybe she's a big Disney fan or loves Beauty and the Beast and knows she'd enjoy more than you. (Unless he knows you're a big Disney fan or something.) You don't want to ask to tag along, because then you'll look like a jealous physco girlfriend :)
Well, I have a lot of girls who are my friends that I do the same things that I would with any of my guy friends (minus say shirts and skins football). My girlfriend started out as just a friend like that, we went to the movies once as friends. After that when we started dating she realized that when I hang out with girls who are my friends it is no different than hanging out with my guy friends. I wouldn't stress over it too much, if you want to see the movie with him, mix things up and ask him to see it with you. Be a little zealous about what you want to do. He will undoubtedly respect you more for it; he may just wanting to see the movie the same way a couple of guys would. Maybe to poke fun at it or to reminisce about childhood memories with the other person. Be proactive and maybe ask him why he didn't ask you instead of one of his friends, but don't make it a huge deal, guys hate it when girls look too deep into things and make problems that aren't there.
Good Luck to you both, hope I helped.
I wouldn't make a HUGE deal about it, you don't want him to think you're crazy and (worst case) go dump you for this girl, but yes that would upset me if my boyfriend was taking another girl to the movies, especially a cutesy disney love story like that.
I'd be VERY upset, too. Tell him. If you let it go just because you don't want to be a drama queen, he'll keep on doing it and you'll just go through this every single time.
A red flag went up in my head when you said has alot of girl "friends". Anyways he's a JERK for not inviting you, stupid boy!!! I'd be really mad with him and break it up.
its not that awkward, remember maybe he's just like playing around as a joke you know? and your boyfriend, probably knew this girl longer then he has known you; so it could have been a joke, or something they just do, like a tradition. don't get freaked out about something, that may be nothing (:
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Um id be pissed. Isent that almost the same thing as cheating?
I would question it, and if he doesent have a good explanantion, dump his ***.
Sorry girl:(
Do it back to him....Hangout with other guys and if he has problem with it they're just friends like he said.
maybe it's a joke between them or something. Just tell him you want to see it and see what he says