i'm 22 year old, but i look like i'm 13. i tried wearing eye glasses to make me look older. i don't wear oversized jeans and shirt. i wear a necktie to work (dress to impress) ---- but the farthest i can go is to look like i'm 15.
i'm also short. 5 feet flat. for a woman, to look young and petite is sexy, but for a man --- well i guess you already know how it feels.
12 to 16 year old girls ask for my number, and it is very, very intimidating for me.
a lot of people think it's cute and says i'll appreciate it when i grow older, but it is starting to bother me, specially when little girls come close to me and act like they are adult and know what they are doing.
suggestions?
Update:PS. i couldn't grow any facial hair. i don't have any hair on my arms, underarms, chest, and ankles. the rest --- yeah, don't think too much. ;-)
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I used to know a guy like that ... but he was lucky enough to be of regular height. Can you grow some facial hair? That's what he did, he grew a little mustache. He still looked like a 12 year old with a mustache, but it was enough to make people realize he wasn't that young.
All you can do is except who you are. In time your looks will mature however there is nothing you can do about being short so stop agonizing over it. What you need to do is project confidence and maturity so the girls will not think you are 13 years old. I think you are more concerned than anyone else. Please get over your short comings its useless to exert energy over something you cannot change.
when you find the right person it wont matter!