I am 13.

My grandma took me to see The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo in theaters. I came for the soundtrack, unaware of what it is about (huge Trent Reznor fan).

My grandmother read the book. The movie was rated R but she didn't know it would be graphic.

There was a graphic rape scene, as well as several sex scenes in which most nudity but male's parts were shown. Our seats were far away but she kept yelling at me to close my eyes. Of course, I didn't since I found NOTHING wrong with it.

I believe that the scenes were done artistically to a certain degree and loved the movie. My grandmother wasn't so happy.

So she sat me down and said "I shouldn't have taken you to that movie. You are too young to really be exposed to that graphic stuff. We're you affected?"

I said I wasn't and appreciated the movie and paid more attention to the story line rather than the intimacy. I also told her how I felt it was artistic, beautiful, etc.

Then she asked if I was scared or AROUSED by the scenes. I said I didnt care. There was worse online, on TV, and sex is everywhere you look. This isnt any different, and I'm old enough to at least know some thing (I know a lot more than she thinks though due to TV, Internet, books, and school mates)

She said Ok I trust you and let me leave but I have a weird feeling and it's awkward now.

What do I do?