About 3 months into our marriage we realized that our expectations were not realistic and it cause a huge wedge in our relationship. Marriage is like taking care of a plant. If it's all about you, it will die. You really have to be patient and giving inorder for it to grow.
We made several changes in the way we did things and our marriage has been just amazing since.
I didnt know exactly when, it just dawned on me that it was never going to work no matter what we did, we were 2 different. Funnily enough it was something like falling in love in reverse, I didnt know when I just knew.
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We didn't. We realized that our relationship needed help, not that our marriage was over.
The marriage is over when you both decide not to make it work.
About 3 months into our marriage we realized that our expectations were not realistic and it cause a huge wedge in our relationship. Marriage is like taking care of a plant. If it's all about you, it will die. You really have to be patient and giving inorder for it to grow.
We made several changes in the way we did things and our marriage has been just amazing since.
When I realized that she was not trying to find a job. Even used Groundhog Day as an excuse to not look for a job.
there have been many times when we both realized the marriage wasnt working...but we both took the good with the bad and made it work!!!
I didnt know exactly when, it just dawned on me that it was never going to work no matter what we did, we were 2 different. Funnily enough it was something like falling in love in reverse, I didnt know when I just knew.
When the flame went out on that burning candle and the spark died, and you realise your just living life from day to day with no passion.
Never been in that situation, but wishing you the best of luck.
That hasn't happened for us.....so I'm not sure when you make that decision.