Ok, I am only 13 and in the 8th grade. I just want to know when all of the kind of serious dating starts, like going on a few dates before claiming them your bf/gf. Now in Middle School you kind of just go out with someone... I just want to know when you got into dating. And when did you tell your parents about a bf/gf? I have had bfs b4 I just never told them because I didn't want to hear that I was too young or whatever.
Update:Ok I didn't mean like serious, serious. Just like when you would take a little time to ask someone out. Not just immediately asking someone to be your bf/gf. Cuz thats how it works in middle school.
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There is no wrong or right time for when you get serious. No right age, not set age.
It's just when the timing is right for you. You'll know. You'll know whether or not your boyfriend is worth your time, if you truthfully ask yourself and evaluate. Sometimes we're in denial & we just want a chance to be loved, so we stick with that guy. But we do it for all the wrong reasons.
As for telling your parents, it varies from parent to parent.
Are they close with you? Did they share with you the stories of their dates? Have you gone into the subject of dating with them before? If so, did they give you a hint of what age they approve of dating at?
My theory that you're never too young for love if you're mature enough for it. But my parents think differently, because normally, for most people, at the early stages of being a teenager you're not emotionally ready or stable to know how to be committed to a real, serious relationship. What you call "serious dating." Once you're mature enough, and your parents know it, you can tell them that you're in a relationship. Another reason they use is that I need to be focused on school. But that's.. whatever HAHA (:
I don't think people my age, 13, 14, 15, shouldn't do any "serious" dating yet because of their disability to recognize the value of true love. They date for all the wrong reasons & there's no way they're getting serious already. But for those who are emotionally ready, they should go for it (though it's rare to find a few who are more mature than the rest.)
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when i was 18 i stated dating anything before then was just friends.
ask ur parents when u should start dating based on the age they tell u will be the best time to tell them about boyfriends they always want to see u as there little girl.
i think 16 is the best time to start serious dating its the time the boys well be driving and maybe having a job to actually take u out places and pay. if u have to borrow money and ask for rides it mines well just be going out with friends.
I never lied to my parents about dating. I just told them. Ask your parents what they are comfortable with. Tell them what you are comfortable with, it's way easier than lying. Or just tell them you are dating someone and that so far you can handle it, but that when you need their help you will ask, this always puts them at ease.
it doesn't have much to do with age, if you set it up to date, then be together then that's how it goes. That's what i did. If a boy asks "Will you go out with me?" I say sure, what did you have in mind, then he thinks of something and we go on a few dates. Just set up the system that way and that's how guys will ask you out.
I've only had one relationship that started the beginning of 8th grade year when I was 14 and ended on my 15th birthday two days ago...I don't think anyone is too young to be in love and have long relationships...just be ready in case you get dumped like me...it's harder I think the younger you are...I don't regret a single thing though </3
I'm 18 and still haven't had a serious relationship. I'd say a good age to start thinking about serious relationships would be 16. However, college is also a good place to start.
Hi I am Arman male 20. My Suggestion....
Dont Try to involve Your parents in this Matter for now, i know love just Happens No matter your lover is Gud or Bad but it Just happens. Due to my sense of thinking No Age in Between ur Adultness till 23 is Better for you to take any type of Decision. 15,16 still i of 20 and love some one more than everything n the world But i didn't even try to involve my family. Do not Serious in any relation coz 15 16 till 18 is a very small age. It hurts lot if some one cheat u. Try to be friendly with all your loved ones. i think its time to enjoy as a friends, after 20 its time to take any small decisions not big ones coz mind changes with time, u ll feel that u love that one and can live the whole life with him/her but with time Anything can change thats my experience. No body is perpect. i ll give u Advice as a Good friend to be calm and Cool in this age, Be patience in everything. u have had to live a big life. Donot experience on ur own coz it hurts ,just try to learn some thing from others who passed from that time. u can Achieve Big things with Bright Future and ur future ll be bright if you spend ur this time in a best way. try to focus on education, focus on Friends and friendly environment. Spend your Life happily with your family and friends. Dont be Serious in any thing, its Not ur time to have serious relationship. if some one really love u he/she ll care of u and ll be Serious for u.
God Bless. Bye.
whenever you feel ready. don't pick someone because of thier looks, looks beyond that. thier personality is wat matters. if you think the guy wont grow up 20 years later as a beach hobo, then yes, ok. but i agree with the other person, collage is a good place to start. high school bf's can be nice, but think, your 13, and in 5 years later, your off to university/collage. did you ever think that you would grow apart if you two went to diffrent collages?
dont think about now, think about the futre and i no i sound wayyy to much like my mom like now. lol
in 15. and haven't had a serious relationship. i thing 17 or 18 is a good time to start getting serious. don't push it tho. take your time. dating is a great thing that you dont wanna take to far
like when i was 13. told em straight away. nah ur not 2 young but u r too young for a serious r/ship
sixteen is an outstanding age to bypass on dates with human beings you prefer to get to nicely known greater useful. 17-college is in all probability while i might date heavily. Dates do no longer continually might desire to be a severe dedication. you may in simple terms bypass on dates with distinctive human beings just to fulfill new human beings and get to nicely known them greater useful. (do in simple terms no longer lead them on, cuz thats something completely distinctive)