Hello im a sophmore in highschool and i came out a few months ago and i have been telling everyone that im bisexual becuase i know it would be easier to tell my parents without telling them im gay and i just wanna know when dose it get better becuase my dad trys to tell me im not bisexual and im just confused but iv done stuff with guys and im attracted to guys its as simple as that and theres not many gay guys in my school so where is the most populated city in the USA with Homosexuals becuase i would like to go to college there and experiement and also if anyone out there cameout in highschool i would like to know what it was like for you in highschool... lol idk why but it helps me knowing that there is other people out there just like me :)
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in time, darling. I came out when I was 14.
...more like forced out by mother.
was pulled out of school for it, lived in hell until recently.
When I was in school, everyone loved me and didnt have an issue with my sexuality...so I had that support system ripped out from under me to be home all the time with an unsupportive "Christian" family.
I learned to stop giving ***** about what anyone thought about me, that's the first step.
Live your life for YOU and not anyone else until you find that special someone.
It will get better eventually.
I'm almost 18 now, and just moved out of my mother's house and in with my boyfriend...and I've never been happier because I didn't have to deal with mother's mess anymore.
but you have to first learn...this is your life. dont care what anyone else thinks. There will always be haters out there - for everyone, not just for the LGBT community. You're not alone - and will never be.
Be strong, young padowin. You're beautiful. Smile.
And, a side note. If you have an apple or andriod device, download the app GRINDR. It'll show you that you are definitely not the only gay one in your area. Be careful though, it's mainly used for hooking up. I'm safe to say this app saved my life indirectly. I wanted to experience sex before I was going to kill myself when I was 15, because mother was hurting me so bad. I found a guy on it that showed me it was okay to be who I am.
...but it also put me in great danger. Him being 27, and me 15, the sex was very illegal...and he was a drug dealer...and had guns. So you have to be careful too.
Anyway! If you ever need to talk or anything, just holla. [email protected]
Good for you. As long as you feel comfortable about yourself, that's ace.
New York or California have great gay community, as I heard.
London, Manchester (UK), Edinburgh, Glasgow (Scotland), Madrid, Barcelona (Spain) all seem to have great LGBT community and great fun weekends in the public pubs and clubs.
Just be yourself and enjoy life!