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♭He just wants you for one night- Mya

No you are NOT over reacting! Sounds like he got what he wanted and he is no longer interested. Best thing to do would be to snub him (Although it will be VERY difficult) don't call him, e-mail or text him. Then when he gets around to calling you (Probably for a booty call) tell him you have plans. Then if he says something like he thought you were an item, tell him he did not act like a steady BF so you moved on. It is not like he is the only guy alive (Although right now you probably feel that way). Then if he wants a second chance tell him you will date him but if he wants to be your BF he will have to prove that he wants you and only you. Then DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM! Not for at least a month or 10 dates (A date being he takes you out and pays, unless it is a romantic picnic in the park which is romantic and counts too!) whichever comes last. He will realize that you are not just a booty call and start treating you with respect. If you do not do this now, he never will respect you and he will just use you for sex. If he does not come back like a dog who has misbehaved then he is not worth your time or tears. Unfortunately we all have to meet our share of jerks before we find our prince. Unfortunately you got you first jerk, the first time.

Good Luck to You!

Things will get better.

Is this behavior out of the ordinary for him, or has this been going on all along and now that you had sex you are wanting him to be closer? Men don't look at sex the same way we do. Girls think that sex means love, but guys think that sex is just sex. If he used to be sweet and attentive and all of a sudden that has changed, then I'm sad to say that you were used. It sucks, but you'll find someone better. You don't need him anyway.

He just wanted sex, i have been in this situation before and well my boyfriend called me every day after that. But yes he only wanted one thing. Just wait a little longer to see how he acts, if he is still doing these things then yes he only wanted sex.

Maybe overreacting. Try to call him again a few days later and see how that plays out. If he tries to avoid you again, get suspicious, then do one last ditch effort to see him. If he avoids you then dumps him. Not worth it. Never overreact on the first bump in the road, it will ruin the potential for a good relationship.

It's not looking good. Don't call him again and if you don't hear from him by the weekend move on. You deserve to be treated like a queen, not a convenience.

girl your boy is cheating on you. Can't you see if he says he'll call you back it means he is cheating on you of course.It also means the girl is coming to his house every day of the week.Go to the movie store and get a soup opera and see how most women get treated and how you can make a difference.

there is 2 possibilities, maybe he's a bit confused , or he was using you just for sex , if so , you'll realize that you've commited a major mistake :S

wish the best though

if you gusy have been dating for a short period of time, ide say he probobly just used you for sex, other than that, see hwo the rest of the week rolls out, perhaps hes telling the truth, dont jump to conclusions quite yet unless he continues to ignore you, in which case.. he probably is getting out.. in which case he was just using you for sex.

No, he's just thinking about what happened. Call him again or go over to his house. Talk to him and ask if anything is wrong, he'll tell you.

He may of just wanted sex from you. Don't call him again, if he wants to see you again, let him call and chase you. If he doesn't, then you will know that he's a user.