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just because u didnt enjoy kissing the girl means ur gay. u might just not be ready for it...or ur body might not be ready. U might have feelings for another guy (not really in that way) but more as a brother...u might find that as u get older ur hormones will completely change the way u feel about making out with girls and the way u feel about hugging other guys. Hormones mess up a lot of different feelings in boys and girls and ur body may just be adapting to them. Also if u do turn out to be homosexual it is nothing to be ashamed with and u should feel open about talking about it to other people and making sure that they are comfortable with u. I am sure that it is just hormones and that u will be able to decide between girls or guys once u have gotten rid of them.

You could be gay, but that's not too likely. I agree with "The Village Oxymoron" - maybe you just weren't into it. The rest of the question really sounds like it wasn't your scene. Some of the answers definitely have good points. You probably just didn't find the girls at the party all that interesting, or you're just not that ready for it. Just give it time. You don't need a massive lecture on hormonal changes to tell you how to feel, you're probably just not ready - that's it.

And you know, there's seriously nothing wrong with you hugging a guy, especially if you're close to your male friends. The whole "oh my god, you hug guys, you're bloody gay!" thing is bullshit (no offence to anyone).

Funny comment about the rubix cube btw lol.

it doesnt mean ur gay.maybe you just didnt like the girls and you were forced to do it.no big deal.i mean first of all u didnt want to go so if u go somewhere u didnt want to go why wud u have fun?some guys are just complete idiots they love making out with girls even when the girls arent THAT pretty.and some girls can be complete morons i mean no offence SOME GIRLS just enjoy bein with all cute guys and then tellin there frends and u just arent that type of person maybe...? dont sweat it tho and not that i have the patience for a rubiks cube sometimes wen ur bored its gud entertainment.and us telling u if ur gay or not will not help for us its a matter of opinion only u can say if u r or arent

there are 3 things really.

1. you are gay or bisexual

2. you just arent ready to go out with girls, which is totally fine, many people dont have boyfriends and girlfriends and until they are a little older

3. Or you just didnt like the girls like that so you didnt feel anything.

You really shouldnt worry, you will figure it out in time. Its an awkward and hard age..i remember it!

Well, your last sentence made me laugh. You most likely just feel exactly the way I do...

You don't want to be forced into making a move with someone. You just want to let it happen with someone you really love. That's how I want it to happen. You're not alone!

maybe your just too young to be sexually excited. just give it time, some people developed those feelings later than others. So if your friends enjoy it and you don't just give it time.

maybe you just havent hit puberty. so it was like a little boy being kissed by a girl and running away.

Yeah I think you might be homo =l I mean most boys are jumping on whores at like 12

Sounds like you just aren't ready to make out with anyone, whatever their gender is. Whichever you choose, it has to be if and when you are ready.

^_^

you sound gay. you probably are.

man the parents were out of town.. should of bought some booze and partyed it up you gotta take advantage of that oppertunity. Youll probably get more gay as you are older if you like "Embracing a guy". Its ok im cool with gays they dont phase me