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i am not like that i agree wit you i like to get to know someone

Some boys see you as 'damn, you're hot,' and some boys see you as, 'Hey, let's get to know each other.'

I have a healthy mix of both for my boy. I love him both because he can converse extremely intelligently about virtually anything, and because he's also sexy as hell.

Plenty of girls see guys as, 'Damn, you're hot,' too. It's not exclusive to guys.

Don't act like half of humanity wants devotion while the other half just wants to get laid.

I've always figured the main reason girls tend to be more uptight about sex is that they have a huge risk attached to it, while if you don't have any STDs, the guy has no risk.

Well especially when people don't know you very well they can not go on anything else but looks. So that is usually the first thing that people see is looks. Especially with a stranger. I am sure you do it too when you see a guy and say that guy is good looking or whatever.

Its a mans world and always will be. Men always have seen women as sex symbols , always on the outside never on the inside. There are those kinds of men out there you just have too keep looking . Someone who likes you for you !!

It's the high school boys environment. Sometimes you find a sweet guy that isn't like that, hold out for him don't give the jerks a chance if thats what they are like. You will find a nice guy by just holding out.

First i see"you're hot" but after a while i think, "lets talk" First there is attraction, then more into the detailed stuff

For alot of people, guys and girls, attraction comes first. Take the word alone, attract...to bring together.

After brought together, 2 people find out if they're truly compatible.

Point is, they don't know you for you, and you don't know them for them. But there's only one way to find out....

Hence dating

Because younger guys are usually immature and superficial. Unfortunately some older guys are too.

I was going to answer this one but then I saw what Cranky Fahrt up at the top said. I couldn't say it better.

i think you're discrimanating guys slightly yeah were immuture but we like it and sure were afraid to commitment but that dosnt mean were afraid to sit down and talk about your day or talk about your self get to know the person i like having girls around me but i still love my -x i just like having girls company were not allens.

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carl

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