I recently caught my youngest son doing rather sinful things to his body. How so I tell him to atop such acts?
Update:He is 10
Update 3:I believe he learned such from his older brother. Who has been caught doing such by many of our family members.
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How young is your son? I would suggest having a long talk about where he learned such a... technique and especially if your in a house where this is "sinful". If hes around 13 and up don't worry. Enjoy the akward conversations for the next week or so and cut down his web access.
Personally I don't find the act "sinful". Your his parent and your allowed to make the rules. At the end of the day he will find a way to do it if he wants. In my mental health clinicals we are taught that masturbation isn't a negative thing if it is being done in a private place (such as a bedroom/bathroom). Your child is probably embarrassed you caught him doing this anyways. I am sure you will get a wide array of responses on this one.
Well thats sounds like sex education. Theres no really away around it but to confront him but be sure youl be able to communicate with him at his level of age. Try asking guidance on how to tell him thru the guidance councilor of his school.
Let him enjoy himself. He most likely has developed faster than most other boys. I know you consider it sinful but your son will never view it that way. It's just pleasure.
If you shame him then he will grow up thinking it is a vial habit, which it isn't. It's normal. How did you catch him? That's something usually done behind closed doors.
"For anyone who wishes to know, he was masterbating and sticking his fingers in a place they should not be."
A power outlet?
Educate him with patience.Very soon,he will leave the bad habit.
What were these sinful things?
Just leave him be. He is just curious of his body.
Don't stop him. It's natural.
Besides if you stop him he'll only go and get intimate with a person.
All children masturbate. Give him some privacy and knock before you go in his room.