the guy that i like, likes me too.
and so, we began "talking". he told me that he
wanted to take things slow between us, and i
was like yea, i dont wanna rush things either.
but he`s already telling me that he LOVES me,
and gets upset when i dont talk to him for hours
in one day. Like, if i only have time to talk
for him for an hour, he'd get super upset and
NEEDS to know all the details of my day. Are these
signs of clingyness? Weve only known each other
for about 3 weeks.
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If he's under 20 then that's pretty normal. Clingy yes... but fairly normal given most males insecurity at that age. If he needs to know the entire details of your day then he's extremely insecure. I would look for another bf or remind him that HE wanted to take it slowly. If he's over 20, then RUN.... you have a nutcase!!!
Yes at the same time it sounds like he said he wanted to take things slowly because he has been dumped and get's hurt easily so it sounds like he's afraid but at the same time, I believe he has fallen in to this trap of getting too close when he wanted to avoid it in the first place. I would say he definetly sounds clingy. How are you feeling about this? I have a feeling he doesn't have a lot of interests or friends; thus his clinginess. If this bothers you, let him know.Hope everything works out.
Run... Run and run fast.. yes its clingyness and insecurites as well.. to needy..set the pace early in the relationship..
Yes clingy. I think his "lets take it slow" thing was just a distracion. lol
but seriously now, if your not feeling the same way as him, perhaps you should stop and reverse.
Yes get out! Can you say stalker / control freak. Not worth the time or hassle.
THREE WEEKS!!! yes...it is clingyness. if you want him to stick around, you need to tell him that he is being such. relationships do not work off of clingyness.
BAIL OUT!!!! ICEBERG RIGHT AHEAD!!!! I actually just stopped talking to a girl with the same problem. I bailed out. I don't need that in my life.
Very clingy, maybe obsessive. I'd be pretty worried by now.
Ruuuuuuunnnnn! I don't want to see your picture on Nancy Grace... "Have you seen this woman"
time to move on to someone else