She's 2 years older than me. My parents can't do anything about it because she's unstoppable. She always makes fun of my weight and ruins my confidence. When I weigh less than her. There's always something coming out of her mouth about me. She lies to her friends and say it's the other way around. I'm her human punching bag. Please help me.
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She's not unstoppable, everyone has a weak spot no matter how unfeeling and strong/confident they seem. It sounds like it might be her friends since she is trying to make herself seem acceptable to them by playing the victim card. Try embarrassing her in front of her friends and then act like a little angel. Also, she is insulting you to make herself feel better (or to get a reaction) so just act like she doesn't exist, don't talk to her, don't look at her etc.
dont let her ruin your confidence, you shouldnt feel ugly cause god dont make junk, and you shouldnt be her punching bag, i would talk to the police about that one and they might come over and pick her up
SHE"S A BULLY!!!!! It doesn't matter if you were a size 10, perfect face, she'd still bully you about something. Her who goal is to make you feel bad about yourself.
Stay after school, go live with a relative, call 911 when she hits you!!!! DO SOMETHING, YOU ARE POWERFUL!
is she 18? does she hit u? if so maybe the cops throwing her in jail would scare her straight. i find usually when the cops get a hold of a 5150 (crazy person) who is violent, seeing the cops usually scares the piss outta them. they talk all this **** but when the po po comes they turn into little sissies. if its just verbal abuse then there isnt anything u can do but ignore her. she does have a weakness. her weakness is shes unhappy with her life. so she tries to control yours so she feels in power and in control of someone because in all other parts of her life things are outta her control. next time she says this stuff say sis, i love you if u ever need me im here for u. and give her a hug then walk away. she cant get satisfication of bullying u if u dont respond. cause that means she lost power. kindness, and love doesnt show your giving into her, it shows your being the better person. everytime she says something nasty repeat sis, i love u if u ever need me im here for u. after awhile she is gonna see there is no point trying to rattle your chains because u wont respond to it. and u will get back control. and she may confide in u and tell u her troubles because believe me she has some. and u might end up being close with her later on.
She's probably just insecure herself. Don't show her you care and be confident no matter what she says.
You know what, you should someday, bring a scale with you and say you want to see who is the FAT ***? And see if she'll put up or shut up.
You can't stop her. If your parents can't, nobody can. All you can do is remember that you're beautiful. When she says something I want you to look her right in the eyes and look unimpressed, and walk away. If it doesn't affect you, she won't do it, and if it doesn't stop, that's okay, because you're too beautiful to care.