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you keep out of other peoples business is what you do.

Well, just remember, that the messenger always gets the brunt of things. But, you should still do the responsible thing and say something to that child's parents, or say something to your mum, and she say something. Maybe her parents don't know, and if this is kept from them, somehow secrets have ways of coming out. If her parents found out you knew, but didn't say something, they would be disappointed and may not trust you anymore. It would end up being one of those, "if I only knew, I could have done something" type of situations-then you may end up feeling horrible for not helping a situation that you could make a difference in. This little girl is screaming for help-she wants attention, and this was an outlet for that. That girl may get mad at you, but one day, she just might thank you. Tough situation. Good luck.

Don't do anything. She's not the first 14 year old to have sex and she certainly won't be the last. Let her learn from her own mistakes.

Quit being nosey, if it bothers you talk to your mom, even though you already know mom will tell her friend, it could just be a rumor and then alot of drama starts because of you, I think if it doesn't directly involve you then why get involved?

keep out of it....... Honestly because from experience, it will all just backfire on you for some reason!!

I know you might want to help her... but from telling one person and it leading to another person.... by the time it gets back around its all twisted......... & In this case mainly it would be twisted from the girl, because she might just be able to pull off the innocent act!!

Definately will not want to get mothers involved, especially if they are friends!! You dont want there to be a break in their relationship...... then again the girl can turn it all on you!!

Its not worth having the finger pulled at you darl especially if your only just trying to help!!

It's got nothing to do with you. This girl in year 9 didnt tell you she told your friend and your firned shouldnt of told you.

so? one of my ex's is going out with a year 9 and he is year 11. just leave hem to it. it's there problem if she ends up pregnant, not yours

Heya

To be honest at her age she can make decisions for herself and if she wants to have sex then there isnt much you can do to stop her. Just be there for her and make sure she knows about contraceptives. =] xxx

I would talk to her about it, try to leave parents out of it at first but if she doesnt listen then tell. No one likes a snitch

I think you should tell you mum. I wonder if the girl's parents know and i think they should. The girl is too young and i think you should tell your mum who will then tell her mum.

u should just keep quiet if she ends up pregnant its her fault not trying 2 b mean or anything but thats her problem not yours