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they are always seen as smart. Chances are she wasn't that popular when she was a kid. So she wants a guy that says things that don't make her seem just pretty, but attractive. He probably comments on the way her body looks and she feels really good about herself. Nice guys talk about the face until later in a relationship. She's tired of comments about her face. She wants more.

But chances are, if she really is smart, she'll start hating him after a while. If not, it serves her right. She'll never know what could have been with you.

Sweetheart as the old saying goes, "you want what you can't have!" I'm an old lady aged 42...it takes years and years of living to appreciate good men, or in your case, good girls. Same goes for these girls you speak of. They want the bad boys who treat them like dirt; they subconsciously think this type of guy might change for them, thus making THEM special. Go find yourself a 'plain Jane.' I promise you if you are loyal to her, when she blossoms, you will be richly rewarded! :) I have personally witnessed some gorgeous transformations in girls who are dull and socially awkward. One day they're lifeless, the next day they are the life of the party! Best wishes!

If I had a boyfriend who was beating up or bullying anybody, I'd beat him up.

I'm smart and friendly... ish... and i think I'm attractive...

But usually, attractive means popular, and it's all about popularity... just like in society. It's all about money and sex, basically.

She prefers confident attractive jerks to guys like you, who I imagine, could use a confidence boost.

Seems odd that the majority of girls on here, when asked about how they rank attractiveness to personality, overwhelmingly choose personality, yet reality tends to not support this.

They are suffering from low self esteem and confidence. Also look at her father- is he similar ? It is common to get into relationships that has a pattern of a certain behaviour as this is a situation that feels safe and familiar even though it isn't good for you.

Because a lot of these guys that are total d!cks are popular, unfortunately, and a lot of girls feel that just because a guy is popular, she should consider herself lucky to get him. Girls like your crush should never resort to a**holes like that.

Wait till shes 30 ish she'll either be burnt out or re-evaluate.

If they are intelligent then they wouldn't be dating a douche bag sorry but she doesn't sound very smart.

first of all, she may have low self-esteem and not think she deserves better. also, she may really like him and see the good in him, and stick by him because she's determined that there's more good than bad, and maybe with her help the bad can go away even. and maybe he seems naughty and that's exciting.

Because those kind of girls are too weak to date someone who will actually respect them.