It’s along distance relationship-5 months. I’ve visited him loads but he’s only visited me twice, because he plays & watches football on wknds.I didn’t mind at first,but am now tired of travelling all the time,waiting in his house while he plays football,&also wknds is the only time I get to see my friends here so have been missing out.

I explained this to him,&he said he loves football,has season ticket&doesn’t want to let his team down which I understand.But he was the one who suggested this relationship&to make it work both people need to compromise and make sacrifices,right?

He said he wants both (me&football)& I said,only one wknd every few weeks you could come see instead of football.He said if I wanted him to do more I should say and he would.But I felt guilty.

I really want him to come see me this wknd as have been havin a hard time lately, he knows this,but is still waiting on whether or not he has a game to play on Sunday.Is it unfair of me to say I want him to come see me?