I love him to death, and no matter what I'll stay with him. But in bed, i'm lucky if it is 2 mins. I want to help him. I want to make him happy by still having sex but i am never satisfied. Please Help!
First of all congrats.... not many women would stay with a guy that lasts only 2 min! Ummm i think he needs to practice more on his own... Or (im sure you wont like this, but its an option) you could give him some cannabis 20 min before and he should last 2-3 times longer. Its still wont be that long but its better than 2 min (again, if your willing to give him weed). I think the average guy can last 20-30 min so just keep striving!
oh wow that sux girl. I mean sometimes when they are really tired I understand but all the time!!! I agree that you shouldnt just break up with him because he cant last in bed.... but you also need to talk about it so that you can practice other ways. Try changing positions. I think you need to talk to him and be honest (in a nice way) because he also needs to know so he can work on it. I think it is very important that you enjoy your sex life with him because you might eventually get tired of not feeling any pleasure and either cheat or break up with him. I would just tell him nicely like "lets make love all night"
Why don't you (after foreplay) help him with a hand job or possibly oral if you're into it before engaging, he should be able to last i would say a minimum of 10 to 15 min. I use to be the same but i practiced what i'm suggesting and it worked. Good luck
Maybe he gets too excited in the beginning. Try doing less foreplay and just get to the sex...sometimes when you do too much foreplay the man can get really worked up so as soon as he puts his penis in...he is just cums...because he has reached his climax already.
Try different positions also...make him lie on his back and you sit on top--you will control how much he feels it that position.
I hope you don't criticize him--that will just kill it...if you put too much pressure on him--he will come quick out of stress...
Do you use condoms? If not, that might help. Also, does he masturbate too often? If he does, tell him to stop for a few days so he can last with you. I had a boyfriend once who couldn't last long and we had to stop and take "breaks" during sex. lol
It sounds like your boyfriend could be taking something to help him circulate that long. i'd desire to be incorrect regardless of the undeniable fact that yet that sounds like an pretty long term. i are conscious of it is not any longer remarkable regardless of the undeniable fact that so who knows. If its quite all him then solid FOR HIM! besides the undeniable fact that, you will desire to be honest with him. tell him which you like making like to him yet that once a collectively because it starts to be uncomfortable. in step with danger which will provide him the inducement to speed up lol! solid success!
Ouch lol just tell him he will understand or u can try stopping wile ur doing it maybe it will last longer like let his urg go down then go at it again lol
orrr just tell him to slow down u do t like it that fast
well, it depends on how many times he's had sex/masturbated. the less he's done it, the faster it'll be for him. after a while he should last a little longer. & no, it's not possible for a guy who does it too much to not be able to ejaculate
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First of all congrats.... not many women would stay with a guy that lasts only 2 min! Ummm i think he needs to practice more on his own... Or (im sure you wont like this, but its an option) you could give him some cannabis 20 min before and he should last 2-3 times longer. Its still wont be that long but its better than 2 min (again, if your willing to give him weed). I think the average guy can last 20-30 min so just keep striving!
oh wow that sux girl. I mean sometimes when they are really tired I understand but all the time!!! I agree that you shouldnt just break up with him because he cant last in bed.... but you also need to talk about it so that you can practice other ways. Try changing positions. I think you need to talk to him and be honest (in a nice way) because he also needs to know so he can work on it. I think it is very important that you enjoy your sex life with him because you might eventually get tired of not feeling any pleasure and either cheat or break up with him. I would just tell him nicely like "lets make love all night"
Why don't you (after foreplay) help him with a hand job or possibly oral if you're into it before engaging, he should be able to last i would say a minimum of 10 to 15 min. I use to be the same but i practiced what i'm suggesting and it worked. Good luck
WOW.....
Maybe he gets too excited in the beginning. Try doing less foreplay and just get to the sex...sometimes when you do too much foreplay the man can get really worked up so as soon as he puts his penis in...he is just cums...because he has reached his climax already.
Try different positions also...make him lie on his back and you sit on top--you will control how much he feels it that position.
I hope you don't criticize him--that will just kill it...if you put too much pressure on him--he will come quick out of stress...
If all fails--he may need to see a doctor.
Do you use condoms? If not, that might help. Also, does he masturbate too often? If he does, tell him to stop for a few days so he can last with you. I had a boyfriend once who couldn't last long and we had to stop and take "breaks" during sex. lol
It sounds like your boyfriend could be taking something to help him circulate that long. i'd desire to be incorrect regardless of the undeniable fact that yet that sounds like an pretty long term. i are conscious of it is not any longer remarkable regardless of the undeniable fact that so who knows. If its quite all him then solid FOR HIM! besides the undeniable fact that, you will desire to be honest with him. tell him which you like making like to him yet that once a collectively because it starts to be uncomfortable. in step with danger which will provide him the inducement to speed up lol! solid success!
In bed, tease each other alot...it'll build suspense and make the sex last longer
Ouch lol just tell him he will understand or u can try stopping wile ur doing it maybe it will last longer like let his urg go down then go at it again lol
orrr just tell him to slow down u do t like it that fast
well, it depends on how many times he's had sex/masturbated. the less he's done it, the faster it'll be for him. after a while he should last a little longer. & no, it's not possible for a guy who does it too much to not be able to ejaculate
My one friend lasted like 15 secs and he thinks he's a huge player LOL.
So I guess compared to that your boyfriend is puttin it DOWN !