It`s absolutely normal for a guy to watch porn. Infact not watching porn is something different. Even the so called decent guys watch porn. You shouldn`t have went mad at him. If you didn`t like the thing you could have gently told him the thing or could have discussed with him about this.
Here are two life facts you need to know right now:
1. ALL guys fantasize about other girls, no matter how hot/amazing their girlfriend is. They are biologically programmed to do so.
2. EVERYONE watches porn.
It doesn't mean he loves you any less and it doesn't mean he's a bad person. It just means he's a normal dude. That's reality. If something as innocent as porn under his bed upsets you this much, I don't know how you're gonna survive.
I know exactly how you feel. My ex had porn on his phone and when I got mad at him about it he was like why does it bother you so much, its just porn it doesnt mean anything its not like i'm getting with these girls and all this crap. But I was still very mad.
To be honest, I don't think it was right. Lets be real, everybody has a porn stash somewhere for a rainy or whatever. I don't think it has anything to do with you in anyway. Some guys just really like porn.
We as females are obviously going to get bothered when our loves are watching these other women doing sexual acts and our men are pretending its them they are doing it to. but you really need to talk to him and not over react about it. He's been watching these before he got with you and he will more than likely continue watching them even if you don't know about it. I caught my bf with these videos on his computer, i didn't yell or get mad. i did feel insecure though but i made sure to tell him how that makes me feel. i know he still has them somewhere, maybe stored in a hard drive or something but i don't know about it and i wont ask about it. i turn a blind eye and he doesn't make it obvious. We get along great. our sex is great and he makes me feel sexy. Does he compliment you? Does he love you? Does he respect you? then that shouldn't be a big deal. you don't like it? fine. tell him and he shouldn't have them just laying around. You don't want him to hide it? then watch it with him.
he sees this stuff as normal. he belives the lies they have portrayed onscreen. so its impoartnt for him to see reality. the 90% of women who try being part of a porn shoot never try it gain because the experience was so traumatic. anyhow the 10% that remain become virtual slaves by the contract. for info on this look at the video on the website i have mentinoned after my answer. its about an ex-porn actress giving testimony of what actually happens on porn sets. above her video there is a link back to her own website which has tons of videos of various people telling what is actually happening. anyhow you can view them to find which one's you want your boyfriend to see, so that he realizes they are lying to him. then you can present him with this also: I suggest you and your boyfriend become familiar with the tricks they use in various sexual programs to powerfully impact the mind, and to apply the solutions to free himself from them. Nature of Problem: Manipulation of the mind through trickery: Various sexual presentations expose the viewer to numerous impactful mind altering manipulations. The viewer having little to no chance to defend themselves is virtually powerless against these intrusions. The viewer is delivered a powerful mental high, which is experienced as a powerful sexual high.i suggest you learn to identify the Manipulations, understand How the Mind Works, understand How to Nullify the Tricks & Free the Mind from these cunning deceptions, and having him practice until perfection. see source material after my answer
Lol! Umm I personally have no issues with it..sometimes you need a release..heck the same goes for females..I've seen my fair share of videos and it doesn't have any effect on my relationship..talk to him about it..if it bothers you that much..
Ikr!! This is one thing i hate about guys almost all of them watches porn and it grosses me out... Its normal for u to get mad but u have to accept it because he'll never sfop watching them. LIke NEVER!!
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You're overreacting. It's natural for guys to have that.
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It`s absolutely normal for a guy to watch porn. Infact not watching porn is something different. Even the so called decent guys watch porn. You shouldn`t have went mad at him. If you didn`t like the thing you could have gently told him the thing or could have discussed with him about this.
Here are two life facts you need to know right now:
1. ALL guys fantasize about other girls, no matter how hot/amazing their girlfriend is. They are biologically programmed to do so.
2. EVERYONE watches porn.
It doesn't mean he loves you any less and it doesn't mean he's a bad person. It just means he's a normal dude. That's reality. If something as innocent as porn under his bed upsets you this much, I don't know how you're gonna survive.
I know exactly how you feel. My ex had porn on his phone and when I got mad at him about it he was like why does it bother you so much, its just porn it doesnt mean anything its not like i'm getting with these girls and all this crap. But I was still very mad.
To be honest, I don't think it was right. Lets be real, everybody has a porn stash somewhere for a rainy or whatever. I don't think it has anything to do with you in anyway. Some guys just really like porn.
We as females are obviously going to get bothered when our loves are watching these other women doing sexual acts and our men are pretending its them they are doing it to. but you really need to talk to him and not over react about it. He's been watching these before he got with you and he will more than likely continue watching them even if you don't know about it. I caught my bf with these videos on his computer, i didn't yell or get mad. i did feel insecure though but i made sure to tell him how that makes me feel. i know he still has them somewhere, maybe stored in a hard drive or something but i don't know about it and i wont ask about it. i turn a blind eye and he doesn't make it obvious. We get along great. our sex is great and he makes me feel sexy. Does he compliment you? Does he love you? Does he respect you? then that shouldn't be a big deal. you don't like it? fine. tell him and he shouldn't have them just laying around. You don't want him to hide it? then watch it with him.
he sees this stuff as normal. he belives the lies they have portrayed onscreen. so its impoartnt for him to see reality. the 90% of women who try being part of a porn shoot never try it gain because the experience was so traumatic. anyhow the 10% that remain become virtual slaves by the contract. for info on this look at the video on the website i have mentinoned after my answer. its about an ex-porn actress giving testimony of what actually happens on porn sets. above her video there is a link back to her own website which has tons of videos of various people telling what is actually happening. anyhow you can view them to find which one's you want your boyfriend to see, so that he realizes they are lying to him. then you can present him with this also: I suggest you and your boyfriend become familiar with the tricks they use in various sexual programs to powerfully impact the mind, and to apply the solutions to free himself from them. Nature of Problem: Manipulation of the mind through trickery: Various sexual presentations expose the viewer to numerous impactful mind altering manipulations. The viewer having little to no chance to defend themselves is virtually powerless against these intrusions. The viewer is delivered a powerful mental high, which is experienced as a powerful sexual high.i suggest you learn to identify the Manipulations, understand How the Mind Works, understand How to Nullify the Tricks & Free the Mind from these cunning deceptions, and having him practice until perfection. see source material after my answer
Lol! Umm I personally have no issues with it..sometimes you need a release..heck the same goes for females..I've seen my fair share of videos and it doesn't have any effect on my relationship..talk to him about it..if it bothers you that much..
Ikr!! This is one thing i hate about guys almost all of them watches porn and it grosses me out... Its normal for u to get mad but u have to accept it because he'll never sfop watching them. LIke NEVER!!
It's not a big deal, some people like porn.