Guy help..boyfriend being distant?
So maybe i'm overreacting a little bit but here's the situation. My boyfriend is normally very loving. He used to be very attentive and always paid attention to my feeling etc. He seemed happy most all the time (you know like normal) and everything was fine.
Lately he acts like he doesn't want to hang out with me. He says hes going to bed but goes out with friends. He's hardly happy. He doesn't text me much (used to ALL the time) and he avoids kisses when I try to kiss him.
He tells me everythings normal when I bring it up. I don't know what to do.
What do you thinks going on?
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He is either questioning his love for you or he is losing interest, but I think he is going through some hard times. I really don't think it has anything to do with you or loving you. It just sounds like he has been really upset lately. Sit down sometime and try to talk to him about it :D
You're not overreacting.
You need to ask him really what's going on.
He's acting different. And he knows he's acting different.
No one on this site is ever going to know exactly what's going on with this guys head except you.
It could be a myriad of things
Family
Himself
School.
Maybe even the relationship.
The thing is you need to ask him. And tell him to be honest and you can handle it. (whatever it may be) No bullshit. Just straight out the truth and see if you can do anything from that point on.
Hi :0 first of all I wanted to say your pretty.lol but as to the question, he does seem distant and you are not over reacting at all.These are all signs of losing feelings. Especially the one about avoiding kissing, or lying about where he is.You have to tell him, not asking whats wrong.haha sounds weird but just say i know something is wrong so just tell me, you make it obvious so if there really is nothing wrong then stop acting like this kinda thing.Anyway good luck!But make sure you actually want to here he may not be interested in you anymore before you ask.
Maybe, only a bet, anyone stated a rumor approximately u. Or might be he quite looks like he does not deserve you. I imply it is viable. If u nonetheless like him then speak to him and inform him some thing happening we will paintings it out. That's what I'd do.
Guys after a while get bored so you have to change a few things. Change your hair color , change what yall do or where yall go dont txt him let him txt you and let hime kiss you. Dont try to wear the pants in the relationship. and go out with friends if he asks you something to do with him. limit your time with him for a short period of time and youll see if he steps up to the plate.
Honestly, sounds like he's over the relationship. Trouble is, guys rarely break up with girls when they're over it, they just start living like they're single but keep you around so they can have their cake and eat it too. It's usually the girl who "breaks up".
hes either playing hard to get or theres another girl . you should sit down with him and talk to him about it, and if he doesnt lsten then break up with him cause i wouldnt be worth it going on if your not happy
Either playing hard to get , even though yo have him , or he's hiding something or , he lost feelings . Sorry ;/
maybe he is depressed. i have a really great girlfriend, but sometimes, i just cant help but get depressed. people act very differently when their depressed. :P
As above or maybe he feels you dont want him.