Just 2 nights ago Her Best friend since childhood was been taken off life support. She had stage 4 brain cancer. Should I leave my gf alone? How should I try to comfort her? I have a understanding of what she is feeling because I have lost good people in my life, Should we talk about the good moments / memories we had with that person? How do I help support her?
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Be overly nice and generous for her which is what it means for me when someone says "be there", like take her over food, make sure she's eating properly take away her worries for just now. If that's not what she wants then just be there try and keep her from thinking about it too much, I know that's what I prefer is for someone to keep her mind busy and do not be pushy about sex or anything. Just give her time to get back to normal as much as you can. Maybe get her a journal because there are probably things she's not comfortable telling anyone other than her best friend
It is very difficult to lose someone you care about, as you know. You might let her know you are sorry for her loss and you don't know exactly what she is going through, but that you are there for her if she wants to talk or just spend time together. Everyone grieves differently, so she might need your support, or she might just need space. Just ask her, and she will probably let you know what she needs. You sound like a very caring boyfriend, and it's good of you to reach out for advice on this tough situation. Take care... MG, counselor
i could propose giving her some area. yet do shop her in arms attain. deliver her slightly text cloth message each and every now and then. Or call her and take her something to devour. in basic terms permit her understand which you're there you purely do no longer decide directly to smother her.
Definitely don't bring it up constantly but just be there for her if she needs to talk and hug her and just be her rock in this hard time.
i wouldnt constantly bring it up but tell her if she needs u in n e way u will be there no matter what its about DONT LEAVE HER but give her space