so my boyfriend is being deployed in january and im so scarred he's gonna break up with me. i love him so much he's become my whole world but im scarred he doesn't see that. what do i do?Update:well january 17th my bf gets deployed over seas i think he might break up with me an i dont really wont him to im going to miss him so much what will i do when hes gone?? how do i deal??. Created by sydnie j. family-relationships-en - marriage-divorce-en

Oy. Breaking up with you has nothing to do with him being deployed. Your relationship is weak, that is why you are 'scared'. Why is he your whole world? You need to expand your world. No one person can be your whole world. Get out more... see new people, get fresh ideas, develop who you are, set some goals....be a woman with a vision and a purpose. Don't make another human be your purpose for living. Jeez.