i think i love this guy, i have know him for a while and we are three years apart and me and him are friends because hes my brothers best friend and me and him get along really good. we also text each other sometimes and i know he has a girlfriend but it never seemed to bother me because he never talked about her and if i texted him saying "hows ur gf" he would say " i have no idea what ur talking about :p ".....
an hour ago i made a myspace just out of boredom and i searched for him and his picture was of him and hes girl friend and it made me feel really sad and i wanted to cry and i felt like i wanted to puke and i cant eat anything, right now it food seems like it has no taste.....im soooo hurt and i have know idea why!
please help me cope and find out what is wrong with me
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I think you are seriously crushing on this guy, though I wouldn't call this love. Right now, he's off limits any way. But if him and his girl break up, and you still feel the same about him as you do now, talk to him about it and find out if there's any way he feels the same.
There is nothing wrong with you. It is very difficult to be rejected, even by someone who might be a player. You must set some conditions for your self. Set these before relationships come along so that you can do so with no emotional interference. These conditions need to include who (in choices of men) are not eligible for your time and attention. I would say the very first could be anyone who is a player or not trustworthy. Doing this will prevent many unnecessary pains in the future.
Hmm you fell in love with him fast.
And its hurting you seeing him with another girl.
Your basicly love sick. I went through it. The guys name was eric, and he was an asshole. He completely ignored me and flirted with other girls knowing i liked him and now i just said **** it and stopped talking to him and started ignoring him. I no longer have feelings for him but he wont leave me alone he says he regrets being like that towards me and hes always trying to flirt with me and he just wont give up.
Lol.