There are two guys who I like and they both like me and well, eventually I'll have to choose. I went to prom with one of them but haven't kissed him because we're not dating but he is soo incredibly obvious that he likes me and is like a little lost puppy every time I talk to another guy. Which is a rpoblem because most of my friends are guys. The other is a boy that I have been friends with forever. He knows me better than I know my self and still likes me. Amazing huh? Anyway, he is my tango partner and my age. Prom guy is two and a half years older. I feel more comfortable around my tango partner, but he's too shy to make a move. Prom guy is too respectful to make a move so it is up to me to choose. Which sucks. Because they are both sweet, respectful, intelligent, and handsome boys. Any thoughts? I haven't kissed either of them so I don't think I've lead them on, but I did go to prom with one. Please, your thoughts?
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Pick tango guy- he's your age and you obviously feel a lot more like you can be yourself around him. There don't seem to be any cons for tango guy. At least, you don't mention any, which I guess could be telling in itself. Is there any reason you need to choose one anyways? Why can't things stay the way they are? Well, best of luck.
OK tango is a bad idea for a Boyfriend. Sorry it's true. He is more like a bother to you I presume. So Prom boy is most likely your best bet, because you can learn about each other. Now there are both to SHY to make a move. And if you go out with Prom and he still gets upset when your around other guys tell him to suck it up and be a man. That or he dose not trust you and thinks your cheating. Now if things between you and Prom don't work try Tango because then you will still have a great Friend if things go wrong.
i'd go with your tango partner cuz why not be bold and make the first move!
kiss ur tengo partner so he knows u like him and then hopefully he ask u out and if he doesn't then u ask him
i think you should go with the one you think you would have a great long lasting relationship with.