Note- I've asked this before but didnt get many answers so Im asking again...
So, Im starting at a new school and Im really worried that no one will like me, -ahem- the guys. I'm extremely shy, and normally say the wrong thing that would put me in the "odd" group.
I was wondering if anyone had any tips for me? My previous question got "Be yourself", "Dont seem desperate", and "Be nice but not overly because thats annoying". I agree with all of those 100%. Does anyone have their own 2 cents to add? If so, thanks. If not, thanks for reading anyways.
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If you are confident with yourself then others are going to notice. On your first day of school strut into class like you own it. Do not look down at the floor ever look everyone in the eyes and smile. Whomever you sit beside strike up a conversation about anything, How you hate that summer is over, or that you are new etc.... Trust me if people see how self-confident and happy you are of course they are going to gravitate towards you!! I wish you all luck in the world!! Don't let being shy keep you down once you get a taste of confidence you will never go back to being in the shadows!!
The first question you have to ask yourself is: "Do I want to keep my dignity intact?"
If yes, then be yourself and all that other stuff you mentioned.
If no, wear really slutty clothes and prance around like a whore.
when i went to a new school i had doubts about people liking me too
but im guessing we have two different personalities. . .
you just have to tell yourself to be more outgoing and really try hard to think before you say anything
well just bew sure to hang out with the cliche and u never know mabe you will make a real friend. please give me thumbs up i really need them